Your sole responsibility is to be happy; if others gets angry then keep doing it because most of the time, you’re doing good already. If it upsets them then let them be. Winners win because they feel the pain of rejection while improving themselves to become even more better, while losers lose because they keep on doing things to make others feel bitter and bad about themselves.
So if you want to live a peaceful life, make a difference; learn from others mistake and be happy instead. Taking revenge will only waste your time, it’s exactly what they wanted to keep you out from your happiness; so don’t let your emotions decide; follow where your heart is; do what makes you happy instead.
Doing things that makes you happy is a reward that you can give to yourself for working hard, for waking up, for taking care of your mental health, for eating, for drinking, for being resilient, and of course of being strong.
Louie once asked, “What makes you happy? And what does happy means to you?” Good question!
What makes me happy? That’s something that I have to figure out; and in order to know what makes you happy, you must experience it. Like for example, Zumba dance makes me happy. TikTok dance makes me happy. Rock Climbing makes me happy. Trekking, Camping, etc. makes me happy. Being thankful and kind makes me happy. Ability to let go and move on makes me happy.
Happiness for me is when I feel excited, thrilled, appreciated, understood and of course heard. So when I’m not heard and when I’m being rejected, I do not question “Why?” I already knew that that person is not into me, so I must move on and never bother them again.
Let them come to you instead, because if you chase a butterfly it will fly away, so just be calm and let them come to you instead. If they won’t come, that’s fine, enjoy your peace and keep improving; if they do, be kind and be grateful.
Climbing, Rocks! 