I went for another massage today and it felt so great! The mixture of Coldness and pain really felt great. I realized that when you feel frozen, all you need is a medium push! Push it and you’ll feel it; that’s the time when you feel really alive.
While she’s massaging, these thoughts came to mind; that life is crazy, you met people where you share your feelings and became vulnerable, at first they listened and suddenly they didn’t care anymore. In that case, rethink your beliefs and your actions, save time and change your actions.
Remember to do it yourself! Do not let others dictate you or made you do something for their own benefit. You must prioritize yourself and do only the things that makes you happy. If it doesn’t, then say NO. I know it’s scary, but taking a step backward, and rethink your plan is the smartest move you can do. Don’t hesitate to change.
I’m currently reading the book of Sir Adam Grant, “Think Again.” Lately, I noticed that my decisions has been opposed or questioned by someone. I realized that it’s not totally right to share information to someone. You must learn to respect your boundaries, unless of course if you needed opinions.
There’s only one reason why they disagree, it’s because they’re overthinking and they care too much. You must understand their background so you will understand that their intention is not to make you feel invalidated. They’re reacting based on their own beliefs and past experiences; so it has nothing to do with you. They have the right to react, because you shared.
That massage really helped me rethink and consider the knowledge I got from the book. It really changed me and my reactions. This will help me solve most of my current problems and setbacks. You must get a massage to feel something and inorder for your to feel what the books was talking about. It helped in digesting information and applying those to the right scenario.
Anyway, I met a friend from my previous life and he looked good. If I did not came out at the jeepney while it’s stopping, and if I was in a hurry, I wouldn’t have met him. All I did was, did something for the benefit of the driver and me having to pee first before lighting my candle.
Oh well, I think that massage really helped me calm down and listened to my body’s instinct; what a blessing. My senses are getting stronger and my analytical thinking skills has been awesome; trust yourself more, remember that if it feels right, then do it.
Climbing, Rocks! 