Every time you think about people, bothering you, messing you around, think about learning.
Think about learning a new skill, go read a book, listen to a podcast, write something like this.
You may also learn a new language, work on your marketing skills, be communicative, just be happy and go lucky.
Clean yourself up, be creative, do something good, help a community, be active.
Think about learning a new method, a new language and a new skill whenever you’re bored and stagnant, attend seminars, listen to what your mentors has to say.