Life and anything in between is a choice. Decisions are choices made by us. One day, you’ll ask yourself, “What’s the point?” What’s the point of doing all these things? What’s the purpose of all these.
If it’s no longer serving you and is no longer developing you, then it’s because you are fully developed. You must come out to continue growing. Then you’ll realize that, that’s the point of being stagnant; it’s just a signal that it’s time to grow outside of your comfortzone.
If it’s meant for you, it will come to you, effortlessly. You don’t have to beg, nor cry for it. You just have to be yourself, the rest will follow. Now, what’s the point of all your struggles, criticisms and rejections? It’s not because you’re not good enough; it is because, you deserve something better.
So, stop pushing so hard, enough is enough. There must be another way, there must be another opportunity. Trust your self and take a leap of faith.
I was in a toxic relationship, he sound so sad, he was a saddest; he kept me question myself and my self worth. I was not appreciated; my existence was not good enough, my presence was not good enough. Then one day, I just realized, “What’s the point?” of staying there, with him.
Sometimes, all you need is your self to tell you, “You deserve someone better” and that you are more than good enough. Then maybe ask your self “What’s stopping you from doing the right thing?”
My self kept saying, “let’s go home!” And I would answer, “What if he’s the one?” I had so much “What if” and I spent years to a wrong person. So here’s the lesson here:
” If it’s the right person for you? It will come to you. You don’t have to chase after them, you just have to be you. The right people will stay and will not run away. The right people will talk and you will feel a little bit scared but it’s okay. You’re fine.