Okay, we all have problems in life; we feel betrayed, we feel abandoned, we feel manipulated, we feel used; we’re blamed, we’re in pain; we made mistakes.
And when ego comes in, you just can’t accept why they did it to us; but you know what? Sometimes, it’s not because of us; most of the times, it’s because of their own personal problems.
Have you ever noticed sometimes that people shouted at you and you have no idea why they did that; well, “It’s not about you,” they just need someone they can vent their angers on, but it’s not your fault and definitely none of your business to figure out why?
How to react to these kind of people is just to move on and walk away. There are things that you just let it be and you don’t have to understand it all. Unless they said it’s you, then it’s not you, even if it sounds like it’s for you. Listen to the words; sometimes, people’s tone of voice doesn’t match at all, so you must relax, breathe, take it easy; do what you can do and just let it be.
Do not overthink everything, just move on and understand where they’re coming from. Understand their situation and just breathe. Be there for them, stay and sit with them. Everything is temporary, nothing is Permanent. Listen carefully and care, then show empathy.
Taking revenge only gets you out of focus and that’s what they want you to be; so focus on your goal and become successful in everything that you’re drawn to. Just breath, walk in nature, balance, listen to the silence in between the noises.
Relax, if people mistreated you, that doesn’t mean you’re bad, it means they care too much, they’re worried too much; they have issues; coz a person in their right mind will not mistreat anybody.
Climbing, Rocks! 