Overthinking is not good, here’s why.

I was in grade 5 when I started to walk on my own for hours, going to school. I noticed that everytime I am already under those trees, I’d ran because of those scary thoughts. Thoughts like, there’s a monster showing up soon, because that’s what other’s story tells. It’s funny that I’d ran withoutContinue reading “Overthinking is not good, here’s why.”

Be open for change, life is about it

This year, I’m going to become 30 years older. I am proud to be one. I accept that I am older and getting prettier 😜. I’m just old enough to show some skin; to become the person I always wanted to be, because I’m already thirty. I’m no longer too young to be scared ofContinue reading “Be open for change, life is about it”

What’s the point of Fear of judgment; be authentic, here’s why.

One thing I realized about most people; they don’t really know you, so they judge and judge and judge. So what’s the point of impressing them? They’ve already judged you. Tell the truth, be authentic, let them judge; let them guess, you’re prepared for it. Let me tell you a bit of my story, notContinue reading “What’s the point of Fear of judgment; be authentic, here’s why.”

It’s emotional pain; that’s what you’re most afraid of

Well, here’s the answer to our problem, “Feel it!” Process it, then let go of who’s causing it. The right people cares about your emotional problems; they’re careful not to trigger it. The wrong people will judge you, laugh at you, create gossips about you, and of course wait for you to breakdown in shame,Continue reading “It’s emotional pain; that’s what you’re most afraid of”

The Question that leads me to find my passion

“Believe in you; why would they not doubt if they’re not in your shoes?” I used to get so emotional when people closer to me disliked me, gets jealous of me, and not happy of my achievements. But soon as I realized, I actually deserve the right people in my life, where I feel safe,Continue reading “The Question that leads me to find my passion”

Be calm; let it pass, that’s what my friend, said.

My mind is everywhere, it talks, it criticizes; I need to declutter. Too many people, trying to get in the way, where’s my peace everybody? I need a break, away from the crowd; where humans doesn’t exist. My mentor once told me, “if it’s not being said to you, it doesn’t mean it’s true… …mostContinue reading “Be calm; let it pass, that’s what my friend, said.”

Living in fear is not an option; just do it, both! You can!

Someone told me, if you’re scared of something, you better do it anyway; so I did. It’s liberating and it sets me free from everyone; so far, so good. It’s kinda hard to live a fearful life; it’s easy to live free from negativities. Let me tell you a story on how fear wasted myContinue reading “Living in fear is not an option; just do it, both! You can!”

If it doesn’t sound good, why bother think about it? Sometimes, ignorance is the key

Life is simple, yet others wants to complicate it; creating intentional dramas to make you feel bad and cry like a baby. Thank goodness! I am no longer a baby, I just looked like one; ah, sometimes, I feel like one too! But this time, only with someone who cares. The rest can be ignored;Continue reading “If it doesn’t sound good, why bother think about it? Sometimes, ignorance is the key”

Fall softly and always have fun

Yesterday, I went for a jog. It’s my 5th Monday and I’m doing good so far. The weather was good and I was blessed. I saw feathers everywhere; it presents itself without me finding it. Look at these feathers… Aren’t they beautiful? It was a stressful week for me, and I was restored by theseContinue reading “Fall softly and always have fun”

Knowing your next direction is a must but deciding quickly to change is a saver

I was at a restaurant falling in line to get my order, that includes a hot chocolate in a mug. I was not aware which tables did my colleagues settled in. I claimed my order; now I face right, instead of left. There was a lady, getting really excited— probably seeing her long lost friend—Continue reading “Knowing your next direction is a must but deciding quickly to change is a saver”