Choose Self Love Over Self Pity

See the difference between these two. I knew this because I have experienced it and I have felt it. Self Pity: When you choose self pity, you’ll attract people who will pity on you like someone who doesn’t deserve anything but just pity, a little is enough. It keeps you feeling poor and not goodContinue reading “Choose Self Love Over Self Pity”

Replace Worry with Fun

I have seen BTS Jungkook VLive twice and he always talked about worrying.. first about the Grammy performance, 2nd about the Las Vegas Concert. Guess what, everything goes right! It’s an affirmation that WORRYING is not necessary, because in the end, everything’s going to be alright. I wonder 🤔 Jungkook-sshi already knew this, he mustContinue reading “Replace Worry with Fun”

Sex Education : Reaction Paper

So, like everyone else, I’ve also watched the movie out of curiosity. It was indeed a sex education but it’s more than just sex, it’s more of like developing a good perception about the organs involved in sex activities. So, it’s empowering, both man and woman. It’s not only focusing on sex but also lifeContinue reading “Sex Education : Reaction Paper”

The purpose

“The only time you can go faster is right after slowing down.” -Me 😁 Meditation gives me life since 2016. I was 22 when I quit my Job as an accounts payable staff (oh I did practice my accounting side for a year). I was in a relationship while I quit and became his partnerContinue reading “The purpose”

Forgive your self instead

“Saying sorry is an old thing; we can always say sorry and will still do the same mistake again; but thanking is seeing the lesson and forgiving yourself for the trespasses you have done.” I realized that karma is real. Now I can see myself in others shoes, so I can understand why a certainContinue reading “Forgive your self instead”

Narcissistic Mother

Oh well, this is so true for me! Thanks Doc. My mother is so like that and I’m so scared I might become. I am full of shame with my truth and how she treated me, but she still have the guts to question what I know about her. I can still remember how sheContinue reading “Narcissistic Mother”

How to handle an abusive person?

Yesterday, I went to the church, and I listened to the preachers coaching. I call it coaching, please accept that. Right, and then to my surprise he talked about Jesus as a good shepherd. A symbol of a person who is just, who takes ownership, and responsibility to his job as a shepherd to hisContinue reading “How to handle an abusive person?”