I was recording about believing in yourself and learning to say NO and its importance in Anchor. You will find it in Spotify if you search my channel “Transformers.”
In that audio, I was talking about meeting someone who sound so sure about me; they didn’t ask the questions, they just assume.
The lesson I get from that is to always ask questions specially when you want to help the person you’re talking to. If not, then don’t; but don’t assume either.
If they started mistreating you, due to jealousy, insecurities, etc. Then learn to say NO, and choose to support yourself and your dreams. You deserve better.
Some people will do everything to keep you under their control. They’ll say bad words about you to make them feel good about themselves; then say good things to keep you around so they have something to play puppet.
But if you learn to see your worth, your value, your true self; and if you’re being honest with your goals; you will not allow anyone to keep doing whatever that is to you. You must walk away, choose the people you want to surround yourself with.
Believe in yourself, you can do it! Change for the better and you will attract the right one’s for you.