Focusing on good things really gave me this feeling of this undefinable excitement, it makes me do the things I really want to do, it helps me grow and become the person I really wanted to be.
Despite of the rejections and the triggers that I get, I manage to redirect myself to the right direction. Good thing about being rejected is that I will be able to do what I really want to do in life if I will accept it right away and decided to move on immediately.
If you’re still wondering why they’re rejecting you, and you’re acting so emotional about it, just let yourself move forward. Achieve all your dreams and let them come to you instead. I think it’s wise to say that butterflies flies if you chase them, instead, attract them by creating a beautiful garden.
Start creating that beautiful Garden NOW! Let the little things that makes you happy be your guide, gather them inside and let it shine. I am so lucky to have met people who have very good family background; meaning they have supportive family who kept on praising them and accepting them for who they are, regardless if they’re not so perfect.
Lucky to have read books with very good insights. Lucky to have digested all of them and lucky to have met good people who can see the best in me; they are those people who are amazing. People only see their self reflection, they do not see you as you are.
And if they’re always in your mind, forgive them; you deserve someone better. Allow that someone to influence you. Open your heart to those who care about you, you’re not a beggar so don’t beg for people’s attention. Reflect on the situation; maybe there is someone else’s like you right NOW, also begging for your attention, but you’re always on your phone.
I remember how busy my mother was; always on her phone after work, no time to cook, no time to check on me, not time to ask “How’s school?” No time to chika minute, she’s always on her phone. I felt so irritated, “why am I being neglected and being ignored and replaced by a cellphone? Chatting someone who’s not even in the location.
Oh well, I guess I have to be thankful that they’re like that, so that I can focus on other things, and focus on people who are available for me to talk to; maybe getting to know other people is the key. Being there to people who are also available. It’s another redirection to the right people.
Now that I’m 30th, I feel like doing things on my own while opening my doors for other travellers to communicate with me healthier than forcing people to be with you when they don’t want to. Ask them once, let go if they’re ignoring you, just move on and let them be. Meet someone like you and meet more of them. It always start with one person.
Climbing, Rocks! 