Giving birth to a new you is painful. Being left behind is painful. Being replaced by someone whom others think are better than you is painful. Leaving those people so you can grow and find your tribe is painful.
Being alone is also painful. Everything in this world that involves change and growth is painful; learn to embrace pain and enjoy it; feel it and be one with it. Be happy that you’re in pain right now, it only means that you’re improving, you’re progressing and you’re growing.
If people’s action triggers you to feel that pain, be happy, be thankful; it’s an opportunity for you to feel your pain and change direction; remember the things that makes you happy, time to do it! Revenge is not a good option, forgive instead in order to find peace, just like Jesus did. He was beaten and in so much pain but he still forgives in the end. He received a new life. Believe it! Where is he? He’s in you!
Be happy no matter what, there’s always something funny about being rejected, being bullied and being ignored. The one ignoring looked like a ______. The one rejecting looked liked a______. The one bullying looked like a ______. Well, fill in the blank and let them go. They’re none of your business. They have their own reasons and going against them will bring you down to their level. No one is going down if you’re not vibrating from above.
From now on, learn to face your pains, stay in the moment and feel it; be happy because you’re alive, growing and learning. Prepare to meet the new version of you. Remember to embrace change and accept what is meant for you. You deserve it. Allow yourself to be amazing. Allow yourself to shine. Allow yourself to be successful now.
Climbing, Rocks! 