Think again, are you really happy with your actions?

Alone time reminds us that we can be independent too.

Sometimes, when we became too dependent to a group of people, friends, family, etc.; we often forget that we can do things on our own too, without them. Dependency only stopped you from doing things that makes you totally happy.

If others can’t and you think you can, then just do it; you don’t need their approval. You are different from them, you have a different goal and they do have their own too. Support them but don’t let them dictate your life because you know your way better than them. We all have different steps to follow.

Sometimes, all you have to do is “Do it yourself!” Don’t be discouraged if your circles won’t support you; next time, be selective with your invitation. Make sure you are inviting the right people, people who can and people who will, so you will be approved.

Being smart in life saves time and frustrations. Now I understand why some people won’t invite me of their events. They wanted to be surrounded by people like them who will not disagree. I will apply the lesson in my life, I will not invite people right now that will disagree of my goals in life, hahahaha. I will only invite those who will agree with me.

The Benefits of being surrounded by like-minded people:

1. You’ll feel supported.
2. You’ll feel validated.
3. You’ll feel happy.
4. When you’re happy, you’ll become successful in everything you’re drawn to.

Someone once told me, “Be happy.” “Keep your heart open.” So I did and slowly I started attracting good things in life. I have achieved more than I thought I would. My dreams have been slowly manifested. There is power in happiness. There is power in knowing what really makes you happy and then doing it. If it makes you happy, “Do it!”

If being alone makes you happy, then be alone. If being your best self makes you happy, then do it, be your best self. If it makes people disappointed then be sorry but that’s not your problem anymore; do what makes you happy even if it saddened those who can’t. It’s not your fault that they can’t do what you can; and does it make you happy to not do what makes you happy?

Choose yourself and do not adjust to your environment nor adjust just to have someone around. Find the right people by being one:

1. Support those who can! If you can’t this time, then cheer those who can! Be inspired!
2. Do the things that makes you happy. You can do it! So why not?