How are you Glitters! I totally needed some positive thoughts these days. February hasn’t been so friendly to me but that’s fine, I will learn how to handle it sooner. I just need to understand a few things.
You know, amidst adversities, clarity is your priority. You must understand that “Nothing is permanent” and everything is temporary. The more you do it, the more easy it becomes until it gets boring, and the you go look for change.
Just a little bit of patience and you’ll be doing just fine. Here let me tell you a story:
“When change is at hand, we rally; we only see the worst, but if we pause a little bit and see the difference and the benefits of this change, you’ll be surprised and eventually understand why we have to go through the process.”
Therefore trust the process. So here’s the story; a story that might justify why you must trust the process and be resilient instead of reactive. “Great! I forgot the story.” It’s just something I couldn’t share. So here we go, imagine changing your old vending machine to a new one that creates the best hot chocolate ever, now it has milk in it and you can see it. Imagine it’s your favorite, ever! Then someone nags about the process of making the chocolate! “It’s too slow.”
Oh! I realized something, It was fine all along. I accepted change. I embraced it. I was happy about it. So it was not me, it was someone else. Oh, now that I think of it, I remember I’m actually an empath. It’s sometimes hard to differentiate other’s feelings from mine. So that’s something we need to do first, seeing the difference between you and others feelings and identifying which one is yours.
Now I’m writing an article about me as an empath, I mean a BLOG. I remember Marquis told me once, “You’re fine.” It was not me, it was someone else. He said, “there’s someone else.” Oh I really thought he said there’s someone else’s he’s dating. Later on, he said “It’s only you.” Oh that was quite confusing? Then he asked, “Can you see the difference?”
Hmm. “Can I see the difference?” Hmm. I think the only way to see the difference is to check if your feelings can be justified based on your current situation. If not, then it’s not yours. Most of the time, you’re criticising yourself when you hear a bad feedback from others. It’s okay for others to bully you or criticise you because they don’t know you.
What’s not okay? Is when you’re criticising yourself; it’s the worse feeling ever. Now it’s okay if constructive, meaning you see the best and good; it’s balance. So, if you’re criticising yourself so much and you’re too angry of yourself already for all your critics, remember that one thing you’re best at; just one thing! One thing! We’re all good in something at some point. Hold into that, and never let go; let the rest pass. You can restart from there.
Climbing, Rocks! 