Clearly, it is because we are undecided and we couldn’t figure out how to handle things the right way.
But here’s how you can choose, are you going to allow good things or allow bad things to happen? Or are you going to stop bad things or stop good things from happening. Either ways, you’re either allowing or stopping something from happening.
But if you’re confident enough that what you’re allowing are all good, beautiful, improving, helping, nourishing, supporting and at the same time relaxing and funny, then no need to stop it.
The only time you think of stopping something good from happening is when you think you don’t deserve it or you don’t trust yourself enough that you can handle it with care. So, all you need to do now is to trust yourself no matter what.
Take the risk of failing because if you don’t take the risk, how could you move on? You’ll definitely be stuck somewhere. You have to at least move and trust yourself that you can do it, as long as it’s the right thing to do, and you’re not going die for doing it, then do it.
It’s a lesson that I will keep in mind. It’s a gift from my Miss. Then I figured out, what’s stopping me is this fear of what if I couldn’t make it, and I will end up being put to shame, and this thought that I can’t handle the shame. But my other teacher put me in a situation where I have to face shame in order to know something that will help me get through his class.
How will you know if you can or can’t if you won’t face it. You know what I mean. Risk and dare, show them you deserve to know something. After all, it’s their job to educate you, because they are in the right position to do so.
Besides, after you face it, it won’t matter anymore, I mean does it matter? Nobody talks about it right after because it must happen. And mind you, every progressive and confident person, even the leaders have done it. So what, like I care. Nobody cares, they’ll forget it right after. Even the best moments in our lives hardly even be remembered.
So what if it’s funny? It’s hard for others to laugh and have fun specially when they get older. If they’ll remember your funny self, lucky them. If not, good for you, you’re safe from bullied people. They’re too busy thinking about themselves.
But those who will remember that cute stuffs you did in the past will have fun with it but with respect and inspiration. They will be proud of you for sure. So no worries. They don’t Remember but you did.