Confront your fears with a smile

Fear has been my greatest enemy. It’s hard to believe but it’s the truth. It all came down to fear. Whatever reasons you have, why you hold back, you procrastinate, you refuse to let go of the negative people around you, why you choose not to forgive; all of those reasons are the product of fear.

It’s really affecting you and your life choices. Fear does not only slows you down, but it also stops you from doing the right thing. It puts you into self doubt and then you started losing your focus. That’s why if I am to lead a team, I will always make them feel relaxed, safe and loved, because that’s the only way to allow our best to come out naturally without stressing too much.

A friend once told me to just relax whenever I am scared and whenever I am afraid. And how to relax? Just smile a bit and listen to good music. Let good thoughts play in your head. It’s the most effective technique to relax easily.

There are certain sounds and vibrations that triggers my fear. Mostly are those people whom I really hated, they’re obviously not my friends. No matter what they do, I just can’t fake it. Before, I used to run away from these types of people, but they’re everywhere I just can’t ran away from them so easily.

These people’s voices pulls me down, because it’s spiraling down. There are people like BTS, that I really liked because they’re spiraling up. Their voices are the best, their laughter just cure someone’s broken soul, that’s why when I sing I make sure it’s going to be calm and going up.

Smiling however shorten your journey towards relaxation. Even if you’re not thinking anything, you will stay in your high vibe good vibe energy when you smile, even if it’s just a bit. I finally understood what my friend once said, to just SMILE. A little smile won’t make you crazy, and won’t kill you as well. When you smile, you are happy, right?

You see, happiness can be forced too. That means that the opposite of fear which is courage and determination can be forced too. So that concludes this post for today, “Smile” confront your fears, it’s your only enemy not the people who triggers it. Fake a smile until you can genuinely and effortlessly smile from the heart, you’ll get it one day if you practice everyday 😁.

Published by Pinky Rose

Hi My Name is Roselyn and I am a Graduate in Business Administration Major in Management Accounting. I wanted to pursue a degree related to Property Management. I saw Commerce as something new to me. The Mother side of the family have Nurses and I want to become a Doctor in Psychology. They're soldiers too! I applied for PAF but wasn't allowed to take the exam because of my Myopia. The father side are into Politics and Farming, I could have taken Political Science or Agriculture, but my choice goes to Accountancy because it sounds so cool and it has a board exam (a requirement to be a Scholar). There are also teachers on my father side. My father is a good farmer, I love his plants. I hope I can offer him something very important. He stopped schooling, he choose to help his parents at the farm instead. My Mother was emotional and stopped schooling too. Later on, she had me then my brother; until she became emotional again and stopped being our mother. Me? I am always blessed and loved by the Universe and the Earthlings, they saw my potential and eagerness to learn new things. I choose to stay and share my knowledge. I wanted to become someone with a different attitude towards life; I'd rather not give than give out of pity; so if I'll give you something, it means you deserve it, not out of bias; I also want to be treated the same, win or lose I'll feel better, as long as it is righteous. Losing/failing will help me change and do the right thing. I am also into writing because I have plenty of ideas. I hope to earn a PHD; research papers are quite interesting; I will really have fun! I am into dancing, just for fun; Dancing is so funny specially if you can't get the steps then getting it right after, it doesn't bore. Singing is my natural born talent but I'm just kidding, maybe not 😃 just manifesting it. I have a book at Amazon KDP : https://amazon.com/roselynmina; written mostly to thank those who have helped me grow spiritually. I finished my Caregiving Training from Feb 2019 to Jan 2020; then became a certified career since 2021. I am working on my personal business, to pursue my passion with a purpose to help the world heal emotionally. I am becoming successful in this kind of business and I claimed it, because I want to manifest it. I am a team player, I want to have fun. I am kindhearted and beautiful inside and out but don't get me wrong, it depends on the person I'm dealing with, I can be rude too like super rude! Taking advantage of me is big no no. You'll get what you deserve later on. I am a goal-oriented person, passionate in writing and sharing the right way. I am in love in all new things specially with JK's personality; he made me laugh out loud, it's so healing. My academic side isn't that bad but also not too good because I still have a lot of knowledge to earn. My friend advised me to exaggerate little achievements though to help me attract more of it. I have a good voice and a good sense of humor if I choose to let it all out. I am passionate and compassionate. I practice an attitude of gratitude. I prefer to be alone than be surrounded by bad influencial people, but I am keeping my heart open for the good guys too. I am receiving support from the Angelic Beings and a future husband that communicates with me telepathically; I'm not sure if I have met him already, all I know is that, he can guide me well. Whenever I am out of my mind and feeling like in danger, he takes over; I may or may not recognize him personally but it doesn't matter, I think he can but I have trust issues so it's normal to not meet him sooner and it's also normal to not recognize him, I guess he already knew. I have an eye in music and arts and love to cook for me. If you believe you will be healed if you'll ask me to heal you intuitively then you will, but it was you that heals you, not me. I can dance and laugh. I am treasuring happy memories. I welcome new experiences. I'm excited with first time events I can travel, take pictures of me with my coalleagues. I can contribute and be of service. I like Song Joongkis movies 😁 he's such a good actor, I have watched most of his movies, but all of his movies in Netflix. But above all, I really love Photography! It's beautiful and exciting to look for good angles. It's a great brain exercise to look at better things in life. ❤ Welcome to my Blog! You're allowed to share your thoughts in the comment sections. Also, please follow and share if you like my artwork. It will help me notice that we share the same values.

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