It’s clear to me now. It is clear to me how different my life is when I am being with the real people. Real people is happy to be with. They believe in you and your abilities. Most importantly, they trusted you. No sense of doubts as long as you’re honest with them.
In short, being a real person without any mask on pretending to be someone you aren’t, attracts real people. That means, if you are being fake to someone, you’ll also see a fake them. What you sow is what you reap and it’s always true
If you want to attract people who believes in you, and if you want them to stay, then be true to them. No need to be fake, because if you do, the real people will run away from you because they just can’t fake you, or else, if they choose to stay, they’ll become the fake version of them which you wouldn’t like.
So if you want to see the real them, be real to them, most of the time they’ll like you for being who you really are. If they don’t, at least you can see it and then you can move on from there. Good things will happen like attracting real good people in your life. Being your true self, will attract true people. You will lost the fakers but at least you’ll find the realist.
No need to be sad, it’s your fault that they faked you. In the first place, you’re the one faking it. But seldomly, you’ll find your best friends who can see you beyond your fake self. They somehow knew when you’re faking and will just reveal the truth about you and it felt crazy but it’s the truth about you, you just can’t hide it.
I am blessed to have such friends, who can see through my hidden agendas. It’s kinda crazy but it felt great, at least you can be true to yourself even if it’s a real shame in your part. Sometimes, shame when faced with acceptance and openness for change will become a source of great happiness and bless.
In the end of the day, whatever happens, happened. You cannot changed what already happend, but you can always change the future, now. I mean do it now. Same situation in the past can happen anytime soon, and it’s your chance to do the right thing. The only way you can do the right thing is by accepting what has gone wrong. What you did wrong in the past. By facing that truth with forgiveness, you can move on from there and change that bad story into a good ending.