Right now, I’m on top of my airbed. This is a gift that I gave myself early this year from the gifts I received last year. I wouldn’t have bought this airbed if my offer was not rejected. To make the long story short, I chased someone not worthy of my time.
Rejections are really redirection! All my rejections redirected me to do the things I really wanted to do; no longer impressing someone just to get their attention. It was funny how narcissistic people can manipulate people by just acting like they are the best in the world, and that you cannot have them no matter what you do; your gift is too little, I want something else. You are never good enough to the wrong person (applicable to all areas of your life).
Someone wants someone else, it was funny and exciting but I chose myself in the end. I realized that even if I’ll give my everything, he will still reject me. Even if how big the love I’ll give, he will still choose someone else. He’s really nothing, but he has skills to make people chase him. So I played along.
The right person for you will accept you for who you are. The right person for you will accept your heart; no matter how little the gift is. The right person for you will exaggerate little things from you, with gratitude. He’s happy when you’re around, he’s happy with your achievements and he’s there to cheer you up!
Because of that rejection, I was able to buy the things I really wanted to have.
It’s my airbed. I had two more things left unopen. I opened the other one and I still have it, a toaster. All these things I only wish I had, and I achieved it anyway. All things happened for a reason. Wrong choices taught us the Right choices; a wisdom that can never be taken away from you. Same type of people uses the same type of technique. Same tone of voice and same wordings.
Now I’m excited to write a book about them, a “novice guide to spot a narcissist, and how to get over them.” Hmm. Now I see why I attracted them everytime I feel scared of Lossing my face. When a relationship is hidden, it’s toxic. When a relationship is open, it’s healthy; and I want this kind of relationship (time check: 3:33 AM.)
I just want to say, “I’m hungry!” Cheers to spotting the right people for you and me! Let’s be cautious when saying yes or no. Most of the time the right answer is a NO. When you’re doubtful if he’s the one and you want to prove it? He’s not the one. You will know it when it’s right for you, because you will no longer have to prove yourself right. If you doubt it, then trust yourself, move on.
Choose your fight. If you can’t win, then accept it and surrender. Give yourself a chance by moving forward and letting go of those that doesn’t belong to you. The right one will come naturally, not by force; like a feather falling slowly to me.
Climbing, Rocks! 