What will happen if you care too much? Exactly! You’ll be mistaken!

Caring is fine, but not too much! Too much of everything will make you a bad person. Only give what was asked; not too much! This is a lesson I learned from my caregiving assessment. Only do, what was ask of you. The thing is that, if you’re going to give too much medicine, it will overdose the patient.

It’s the same logic with everything! Giving someone something without him asking, just because you’re assuming they needed help, is always a bad idea. Sometimes, you just have to wait for someone to seek help. Some people don’t ask help because they can do it without our help.

Now when you care too much, and assume that they needed it, they’ll either take it for granted without a thank you or they’ll either think that you think he/she is dumb. It’s important to not assume, always do the right thing; be patient. If it’s unresponsive, then do not pursue. Let them come to you!

Sometimes, you have to take back the words that you have said because not all criterias or conditions were met. Don’t care too much or else you’ll do the wrong thing, instead of trying to make it right. Sometimes, helping is not really helping. Enough is enough; no more, no less.

Only provide what was ask, because if you give too much, good luck! I hope you’re not expecting too much in return, damn you won’t get it. It’s painful to do something unnecessary and ended up as a waste. Be thankful to serve what was asked.

I have a story to tell, the reason why people take advantage because they knew your intention and they want to win by getting and not giving; that’s a scam isn’t it? So if you don’t want to be scammed, only give what was ask and only give if you can, no forcing. If you’re forced, you’re in danger. If you’re angered for no reason, and then doing things that you don’t like, let it go! You deserve someone else.

Someone who will not place you in a cage, someone who trust and someone who supports what makes you happy, not just temporarily but all the way through! Someone who knew how good you are no matter how childish and naughty you can be! Someone who can see the real you behind the act you have shown.