Push “IT” to move “IT!

It’s raining right now and I’m under Mactan Marcelo Bridge; got caught in the rain but that doesn’t mean I can’t go home yet. I decided to stay and play with the Swing!

“In order to move it, I must push it!” It’s a cool realization and affirmation of the things we already knew and yet failed to put it into action until it was forgotten.

If you’re alone and no one else is around to help, you must not give up, you must push “IT” yourself because if you won’t, then “IT” won’t move in the directions you want it to. You know your “IT” right?

I remember one of Oprah Wenphry’s movie; what was it called? “The IT.” I wasn’t really paying attention because I was on a movie date and I simply couldn’t focus 🙈 and this was way back 2018. Anyway, I kept hearing the words, “The It”, so maybe that was the title?

Know your “IT” and then push it. In the matrix movie, I heard the child monk said, “Don’t bend the spoon, bend yourself.” Then the spoon follows. I believe Neo was asked to bend the spoon.

Maybe it’s not the rock that’s hard, maybe it’s you! I remember I shared a story to a friend back then, he’s name was “Adrian.” His advise was, “Why don’t you initiate it yourself?” So I did and it made me happy. I realized that if they did it the wrong way, then I’ll try doing it the right way. I’m still doing it, slowly.

I just have to push myself into doing that; and how? Another friend advised me not to push myself so hard. The 3 things he gave me before I left the team was: You are young and single, relax and don’t push yourself so hard; have fun; love yourself.

I have a lot of friends who’s guiding me to the direction I’m in; and I must remember that everytime I feel like no one’s there for me when I needed help the most; they did their part and it’s my turn to implement it within me. Hardships are just challenges, not punishments; and challenges are interesting- it’s not meant to fail you, it’s meant to empower, strengthen and transform you into a better version of you. It’s time to upgrade. Your only enemy is your fear of change and huge transformation.

If you really want to grow, you must accept change. Listen to your guides and keep pushing. Let them do their job and then you can do yours. All you have to do is change what’s not working. Try the other way/direction, then push IT.