Almost Got Into Another Relationship 6 Years After, Luckily I got Ghosted Again

After 6 years of choosing to stay single, I almost got into another short term relationship, luckily it ended so shortly that we haven’t talked of being in a relationship at all. It was all friendship and kindness, and kind of a short romantic date.

For the record, that was the first time that I’ve met someone romantic, that was the best Christmas Gift for me this year. “Thank you, 2025!” Maybe because we’re almost of the same age, unlike those I’ve met in my twenties, they’re years older than me; I thought I was too old, so I made those choices.

After 6 years, I’ve met someone I liked; he’s a joker and it’s so funny to joke around with him too. That short encounter was quite healing. He gave me the “Back Hug” I wished for and he didn’t even knew it was my first time being hugged tight like that, haha. He didn’t even believe I’m still single for 6 years now, but the last serious relationship I’ve had was 10 years ago, haha, he’s so funny.

Anyway, he didn’t contact me anymore, no plans, nothing; so I just removed him as my friend in social media. We didn’t even have any mutual friends at all, and I think he’s restricted on messages, so I won’t be able to read any messages from him IF he would message me, which I know he wouldn’t. I’m just HAPPY I’ve met that kind of guy. Now I know what I wanted for a man.

Anyhow, I’m still SINGLE! Almost got into another “I don’t know if that was real or not” connection. Luckily, he doesn’t like me, oops! Got busted again. Then I will spend another more years to love myself again and again until I am ready, full of me, and feeling complete and enough. It’s my chance to work on my insecurities before meeting another man much better than him. Someone who will fulfill my most “Intensive Wish.” 😁

Let’s give our best selves to anything we’re drawn to 2026. Let’s work on that thing that’s stopping us from being the version of us that is kept hidden due to fear, insecurities, doubts, lack, etc. May you all have a happy New Year! Let’s do this! I’m fully charged! Thank you, Lord. Guide me on my first ever major climb. See you in Mt. Apo trail January 2026!