Believe not in their words but in their actions

Success is on the other side of fear, face your fear and work on it.

If you really really want to have a baby and you’re a woman, you will have to go through pain and maybe shame because someone’s going to assist you in labor. Then who doesn’t fear pain? How about shame? In order for you to get it, you’ll have to face fear of pain only, let’s say you have develop a skill to be shameless.

Additionally, if you are single right now, you’ll also have to face fear of a possible failed relationship, because noone can predict if the person you have chosen to give you the child you want will stay with you; either you will compromise your own freedom by chasing after and adjusting to his life, or you’re going to do it solo, let him be free and let yourself be free with your child.

So to say, you better be prepared to raise a child solo, if you really wanted to have one. Hoping for a man to support you and the child is not a good idea, for me. If you’re not ready, better start preparing, you don’t wanna repeat history, do you? Remember not to hope for a man’s words, promises or encouragements; only a few take it to heart, the rest are just playing; they’ll run away when things go hard.

If you’re not ready, I’d rather have you choose the Lord, your God, while you’re preparing. If you already have children’s and the man ran away from their responsibility, to you and to your children; then you’d rather stay single, rebuild yourself with your children until someone is wholeheartedly willing to stay with you and be the father and the husband of your dreams, like Joseph and Mary. It is important that you give him a chance.

Revenge only attracts the same kind of old man, over and over again, until you learn your lesson. Work on yourself instead, do what makes you happy and be a good role model to your childrens. So do not deny your sins because the only way to forgiveness is to face your sins and repent, meaning you will not do it again. Lesson is not to believe in a man’s words, but in his actions; unless he’s the Lord, your God.