Dealings

Acknowledge the truth and it will induce change of mind.
If you feel like you can’t change your mind because of fear, know why. And when you found the right answer, that’s when the truth will set you free.
Sometimes, the answer is everywhere but you’re forcing yourself to deny it because you want to prove someone wrong about something, worst thing is that you know it, you can sense something’s right but it just sound so badly so you don’t believe it.


When you deny the bad truth, that will block you from progressing and achieving your goals.
If you start acknowledging that someone doesn’t care about you, then you will recognize someone who truly cares about you. And when you decided to believe that sad truth, you can stop all those confusions and chattering behind your thoughts. Then you can move on.

Sometimes, truth hurts, I mean I guess it’s always hurtful specially if it’s not about your good things, that’s also why it’s easy to deny bad truth to avoid pain. Face it, deal with it, look for clues and proofs for you to believe it. It’s really painful specially if you have to admit that the same reason why they are who they are to you is the same reason why you have experienced that life right now, because you two are kind of similar in some ways after all she’s your close family member. But if you don’t admit yours and just blame it on to others, then you’re not going to do something about for a change. I mean, if they can’t, be the change, do it for you.

If you’re on the wrong track, you can still shift your focused destination back to where you’re meant to be if you have a change of mind.
You can come back and stay where she wanna stay, eat what she wants to eat, dance and sing with her perfect rhythm.
“I can make it right!” That’s what JK said in one of his songs.
In order to correct something, you have to accept the truth about the truth.
Go ask some professional help and believe what’s causing the issue and do something about it.
My teacher told us to do good as long as it’s not going to kill you, you’re safe.

Oh yeah, I remember, when you have to clean your messes, you have to see it first so you can clean it properly correct?
It’s okay to look back and reflect on those ugly things you’ve done before so you can start cleaning it up, but first you have to admit it happened.

It’s okay to lie but not to yourself or in your relationships, always be honest no matter what, unless of course if you’re just being sarcastic.
In the end, you’ll either start a new beginning or fall in your own lies over and over again.
I had a bad mother, oh she was my first mother, she often compared me with my cousins, how good they are, how beautiful their family are, how independent they are, how lucky their parents are because my cousins are their sons and daughters, and me and my brother made her suffer, like we’re pests, dependent Bullshits a burden to her.

She’s not even happy of us existing, me graduating, all she cares was them. All the praise to them, and all the blasphemy to me, all the belittlement despite all my little happiness. All the bad things, all the bad rumors goes to me and my father’s family. And all her acts about her family was meant for me. She felt bitter and she’s taking revenge to my father’s family through us by mentally abusing us. Even all my blessings she doubted, well what do you expect a daughter would treat herself if the mother is like that.

But I’m proud of her, that’s how bad she is, it’s unbelievable, it sounds iShe can make you feel worthless, like a witch, as if without her you’re nothing. And she always sound like she’s always right. And when you try to correct her, you’ll make her feel wrong. She will act like a victim for you to have mercy over her, but when you care you will be accused.

So if you have a mother like that, just ignore her, she doesn’t deserve your care.
Listen to the right people and pray for your own peace instead, there’s nothing you can do about her purpose and her choices. Don’t even try to interfere, mind your business, for your own sake, she’s got her reasons, and it’s none of your business to know it all just because you care.
All you can do is respect her and move on with your life.

I was always right growing up, I believe that I always have a real mother, and that’s my second mother not the biological one. The Universe will always give you the right one, just be patient.

Published by Pinky Rose

Hi My Name is Roselyn and I am a Graduate in Business Administration Major in Management Accounting. I wanted to pursue a degree related to Property Management. I saw Commerce as something new to me. The Mother side of the family have Nurses and I want to become a Doctor in Psychology. They're soldiers too! I applied for PAF but wasn't allowed to take the exam because of my Myopia. The father side are into Politics and Farming, I could have taken Political Science or Agriculture, but my choice goes to Accountancy because it sounds so cool and it has a board exam (a requirement to be a Scholar). There are also teachers on my father side. My father is a good farmer, I love his plants. I hope I can offer him something very important. He stopped schooling, he choose to help his parents at the farm instead. My Mother was emotional and stopped schooling too. Later on, she had me then my brother; until she became emotional again and stopped being our mother. Me? I am always blessed and loved by the Universe and the Earthlings, they saw my potential and eagerness to learn new things. I choose to stay and share my knowledge. I wanted to become someone with a different attitude towards life; I'd rather not give than give out of pity; so if I'll give you something, it means you deserve it, not out of bias; I also want to be treated the same, win or lose I'll feel better, as long as it is righteous. Losing/failing will help me change and do the right thing. I am also into writing because I have plenty of ideas. I hope to earn a PHD; research papers are quite interesting; I will really have fun! I am into dancing, just for fun; Dancing is so funny specially if you can't get the steps then getting it right after, it doesn't bore. Singing is my natural born talent but I'm just kidding, maybe not 😃 just manifesting it. I have a book at Amazon KDP : https://amazon.com/roselynmina; written mostly to thank those who have helped me grow spiritually. I finished my Caregiving Training from Feb 2019 to Jan 2020; then became a certified career since 2021. I am working on my personal business, to pursue my passion with a purpose to help the world heal emotionally. I am becoming successful in this kind of business and I claimed it, because I want to manifest it. I am a team player, I want to have fun. I am kindhearted and beautiful inside and out but don't get me wrong, it depends on the person I'm dealing with, I can be rude too like super rude! Taking advantage of me is big no no. You'll get what you deserve later on. I am a goal-oriented person, passionate in writing and sharing the right way. I am in love in all new things specially with JK's personality; he made me laugh out loud, it's so healing. My academic side isn't that bad but also not too good because I still have a lot of knowledge to earn. My friend advised me to exaggerate little achievements though to help me attract more of it. I have a good voice and a good sense of humor if I choose to let it all out. I am passionate and compassionate. I practice an attitude of gratitude. I prefer to be alone than be surrounded by bad influencial people, but I am keeping my heart open for the good guys too. I am receiving support from the Angelic Beings and a future husband that communicates with me telepathically; I'm not sure if I have met him already, all I know is that, he can guide me well. Whenever I am out of my mind and feeling like in danger, he takes over; I may or may not recognize him personally but it doesn't matter, I think he can but I have trust issues so it's normal to not meet him sooner and it's also normal to not recognize him, I guess he already knew. I have an eye in music and arts and love to cook for me. If you believe you will be healed if you'll ask me to heal you intuitively then you will, but it was you that heals you, not me. I can dance and laugh. I am treasuring happy memories. I welcome new experiences. I'm excited with first time events I can travel, take pictures of me with my coalleagues. I can contribute and be of service. I like Song Joongkis movies 😁 he's such a good actor, I have watched most of his movies, but all of his movies in Netflix. But above all, I really love Photography! It's beautiful and exciting to look for good angles. It's a great brain exercise to look at better things in life. ❤ Welcome to my Blog! You're allowed to share your thoughts in the comment sections. Also, please follow and share if you like my artwork. It will help me notice that we share the same values.

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