Lessons I learned from running away
In life there is always ups and downs. Sometimes, you have to run away to figure things out. But if you think you’ll lose the race then you’ll have to stop running, that’s where the problem starts coming. But If you want to really figure things out, keep walking but don’t stop yet, just walk away from it. You may not avoid people you hate, people who’s good at lowering your self esteem specially your self confidence with their sharp words plus ugly tone of voice, you can always walk away from it, ignore it, and remind yourself “Their opinion, sorrows, anger and bad intention is none of your business.” Eventually, they’ll stop specially if they started feeling their own bad intention.
It doesn’t matter who, could be anybody closer to you, anybody who have been supporting you, as if supporting you just to have something to report and make them appear the best and you became the least. Someday, you’ll give back, so just keep the faith and let them be themselves. And because you have respected them but they have disrespected you back anyway, just find another way to make yourself more happy.
It’s easy to ignore you know. It used to be. But when your EGO started butting in, it’s pretty hard not to fight back. In that case, simply fight a good fight. Telling the truth itself will simply shut them off. Truth hurts, that’s something your enemy does not want to hear. If you don’t want to hear bad comments and feedbacks from them specially if it’s not true, they too doesn’t want to hear truths. But I do! I like truths, I’d rather be told the right thing, than being gossiped right in front of me as if I do not exist and not listening. I cannot tell her name nor my relationship to her but she does exist. It was merely an act, because it could kill them. You’ll have to smile a bit in order to live.
You see, evils do exist, but it’s not a monster, it’s a human being with bad intention, on purpose. Someone who will do everything just to hurt you, belittle you or make you appear so down that you will ended up pettying in your self, that if you will let them win. But if you want to win, think positive thoughts, brace yourself and make yourself appear strong no matter what. You will become stronger anyway, so just do it. It’s not going to harm you, believe it. It will help you become who you want to be. All blessings will pour upon you, then it’s the right time to give back everything they have given to you. They may not stop hurting you, but your life is getting better anyway and their life is none of your business. Eventually, they’ll become who they think you are.
Bad energies attacking you is just temporary, it will return back to its master because it cannot live longer in a highly positive place, specially if you make yourself sacred, you devote yourself to forgiveness and close doors to those who wants to hurt you. It will die. You’re not crazy you know? You knew that a flame hurts when you touch it so keep your distance and stay calm. When it sparks, just stay calm. Know that it’s not doing anything to harm you. It’s there to light your way but don’t stand too close to it. Like driving, keep your distance. But if they’re risk takers anyway, then it’s not your fault if they’ll burn into ashes. Do not run away, never again, just because you care. Let them come to you, and know that you’re safe.
You can become a flame too, then you become untouchable. And if they’ll try touching your calmness, they’ll burn to fire. Sounds so painful if you put yourself in their shoes, but guess what, keep it on, it protects you, and if it’s off, then light it on. Evils lives in the dark and they’re not monsters, they’re human. It’s their choice to hurt you and touch your peace, then they deserve pain. It will give them lessons. Lesson for you, keep distance and let people be calm if they are. Respect and keep quiet, just let it warm you a bit, but do not step on it if you want peace. Now be the flame that hurts instead of a candle stick that melts down and easily get burn when you light it up. But do it only when they started touching your inner peace. They deserve a better teacher, and that teacher is you. Do not run away, face them. Nor turn off your light, keep it on.