The Benefits Of Caring Less

Caring isn’t a bad thing, but if you overdo it, it can become a burden. Sometimes, you just have to let things happen as it must even if it will hurt others, your loved ones, including yourself.

Caring too much takes away your life. Your identity will be compromised and you will be compared to people you must not be compared with.

Sometimes, it’s just okay to sympathize because it’s for the best. There are things that you really cannot do for others, but that doesn’t make you less of yourself.

My high school teacher once told me, “You did your part”. I think that’s all that matters, the rest is up to them. You have yourself to save in the end.

No matter what happened, doing your part will not make you lesser of a person that you already are. Little things matters and it’s only you who can give credits to yourself.

Care less, because it will save you from stress. I may not have scientific research for this because I am kinda lazy hahaha. But for me, it’s common sense. If you care less, you think less, and when you think less, you allow peace to come to you.

Careless, it’s okay to care less. What’s stopping you from becoming your true self, is that you care about what other people will say, gossip, or talk about behind your back.

I tell you what, their opinions are none of your business. If you don’t want to listen to them, then listen to some good news. Listen to some good music. Let go of those you don’t want to listen.

Change your direction if you must. The road to life isn’t straight, it’s zigzag. You cannot climb up mountains straight from the bottom. You have to move from time to time, change ways, find something that’s available for you.

If you can’t reach it, then let’s do baby steps. Find the easiest way to climb up there. Chunk by chunk, my mentor said. He said, if you want big success, you have chunk it little by little.

Enjoy the little things in life because it is beautiful, it builds up the foundation of the bigger things. Care not of what others thought of you. Accept yourself for who you are and do something else that will make you feel valued and successful.

Their comments doesn’t matter. It must not matter. Care less, you don’t awe them a reply, ignore them and accept yourself for ignoring them. Accept yourself for feeling that guilt, because you are human after all.

It’s okay to be offended, it’s okay to feel so bad, it’s okay to feel insecure, my WF told us it’s a valid emotion, you can feel that, it’s right. If you feel disappointed of yourself, that’s okay, it’s normal. It’s not wrong at all.

Care less, you can do better than that. You can do better. You can do better. You can become better everyday. Keep reminding yourself. Always remember that good things. Keep repeating the good things.

Care less, nobody asked you to be careful, because it’s stressful. If they asked you anyway, then just do your best. If you can’t keep it then accept your shame, your anger, your anxiety, your feelings of rejection and self pity, everything that’s hidden, accept it because who else will.

Care less, carry on, live your life to the fullest, respect and accept your past decisions, acknowledge your set backs, acknowledge your shortcomings, acknowledge your hidden guilts, fear, anger, and say “Cool” now I know what to accept.

Care less, just accept your emotions, including your shame and all types of fear, do something about it, learn from it and make it right. You can make it right. Care less, just support yourself. Be there to assist you because no one else will do.

You will be saved from Stress.

You will be happy.

You will feel lighter.

Published by Pinky Rose

Hi My Name is Roselyn and I am a Graduate in Business Administration Major in Management Accounting. I wanted to pursue a degree related to Property Management. I saw Commerce as something new to me. The Mother side of the family have Nurses and I want to become a Doctor in Psychology. They're soldiers too! I applied for PAF but wasn't allowed to take the exam because of my Myopia. The father side are into Politics and Farming, I could have taken Political Science or Agriculture, but my choice goes to Accountancy because it sounds so cool and it has a board exam (a requirement to be a Scholar). There are also teachers on my father side. My father is a good farmer, I love his plants. I hope I can offer him something very important. He stopped schooling, he choose to help his parents at the farm instead. My Mother was emotional and stopped schooling too. Later on, she had me then my brother; until she became emotional again and stopped being our mother. Me? I am always blessed and loved by the Universe and the Earthlings, they saw my potential and eagerness to learn new things. I choose to stay and share my knowledge. I wanted to become someone with a different attitude towards life; I'd rather not give than give out of pity; so if I'll give you something, it means you deserve it, not out of bias; I also want to be treated the same, win or lose I'll feel better, as long as it is righteous. Losing/failing will help me change and do the right thing. I am also into writing because I have plenty of ideas. I hope to earn a PHD; research papers are quite interesting; I will really have fun! I am into dancing, just for fun; Dancing is so funny specially if you can't get the steps then getting it right after, it doesn't bore. Singing is my natural born talent but I'm just kidding, maybe not 😃 just manifesting it. I have a book at Amazon KDP : https://amazon.com/roselynmina; written mostly to thank those who have helped me grow spiritually. I finished my Caregiving Training from Feb 2019 to Jan 2020; then became a certified career since 2021. I am working on my personal business, to pursue my passion with a purpose to help the world heal emotionally. I am becoming successful in this kind of business and I claimed it, because I want to manifest it. I am a team player, I want to have fun. I am kindhearted and beautiful inside and out but don't get me wrong, it depends on the person I'm dealing with, I can be rude too like super rude! Taking advantage of me is big no no. You'll get what you deserve later on. I am a goal-oriented person, passionate in writing and sharing the right way. I am in love in all new things specially with JK's personality; he made me laugh out loud, it's so healing. My academic side isn't that bad but also not too good because I still have a lot of knowledge to earn. My friend advised me to exaggerate little achievements though to help me attract more of it. I have a good voice and a good sense of humor if I choose to let it all out. I am passionate and compassionate. I practice an attitude of gratitude. I prefer to be alone than be surrounded by bad influencial people, but I am keeping my heart open for the good guys too. I am receiving support from the Angelic Beings and a future husband that communicates with me telepathically; I'm not sure if I have met him already, all I know is that, he can guide me well. Whenever I am out of my mind and feeling like in danger, he takes over; I may or may not recognize him personally but it doesn't matter, I think he can but I have trust issues so it's normal to not meet him sooner and it's also normal to not recognize him, I guess he already knew. I have an eye in music and arts and love to cook for me. If you believe you will be healed if you'll ask me to heal you intuitively then you will, but it was you that heals you, not me. I can dance and laugh. I am treasuring happy memories. I welcome new experiences. I'm excited with first time events I can travel, take pictures of me with my coalleagues. I can contribute and be of service. I like Song Joongkis movies 😁 he's such a good actor, I have watched most of his movies, but all of his movies in Netflix. But above all, I really love Photography! It's beautiful and exciting to look for good angles. It's a great brain exercise to look at better things in life. ❤ Welcome to my Blog! You're allowed to share your thoughts in the comment sections. Also, please follow and share if you like my artwork. It will help me notice that we share the same values.

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