The Benefits Of Caring Less

Caring isn’t a bad thing, but if you overdo it, it can become a burden. Sometimes, you just have to let things happen as it must even if it will hurt others, your loved ones, including yourself.

Caring too much takes away your life. Your identity will be compromised and you will be compared to people you must not be compared with.

Sometimes, it’s just okay to sympathize because it’s for the best. There are things that you really cannot do for others, but that doesn’t make you less of yourself.

My high school teacher once told me, “You did your part”. I think that’s all that matters, the rest is up to them. You have yourself to save in the end.

No matter what happened, doing your part will not make you lesser of a person that you already are. Little things matters and it’s only you who can give credits to yourself.

Care less, because it will save you from stress. I may not have scientific research for this because I am kinda lazy hahaha. But for me, it’s common sense. If you care less, you think less, and when you think less, you allow peace to come to you.

Careless, it’s okay to care less. What’s stopping you from becoming your true self, is that you care about what other people will say, gossip, or talk about behind your back.

I tell you what, their opinions are none of your business. If you don’t want to listen to them, then listen to some good news. Listen to some good music. Let go of those you don’t want to listen.

Change your direction if you must. The road to life isn’t straight, it’s zigzag. You cannot climb up mountains straight from the bottom. You have to move from time to time, change ways, find something that’s available for you.

If you can’t reach it, then let’s do baby steps. Find the easiest way to climb up there. Chunk by chunk, my mentor said. He said, if you want big success, you have chunk it little by little.

Enjoy the little things in life because it is beautiful, it builds up the foundation of the bigger things. Care not of what others thought of you. Accept yourself for who you are and do something else that will make you feel valued and successful.

Their comments doesn’t matter. It must not matter. Care less, you don’t awe them a reply, ignore them and accept yourself for ignoring them. Accept yourself for feeling that guilt, because you are human after all.

It’s okay to be offended, it’s okay to feel so bad, it’s okay to feel insecure, my WF told us it’s a valid emotion, you can feel that, it’s right. If you feel disappointed of yourself, that’s okay, it’s normal. It’s not wrong at all.

Care less, you can do better than that. You can do better. You can do better. You can become better everyday. Keep reminding yourself. Always remember that good things. Keep repeating the good things.

Care less, nobody asked you to be careful, because it’s stressful. If they asked you anyway, then just do your best. If you can’t keep it then accept your shame, your anger, your anxiety, your feelings of rejection and self pity, everything that’s hidden, accept it because who else will.

Care less, carry on, live your life to the fullest, respect and accept your past decisions, acknowledge your set backs, acknowledge your shortcomings, acknowledge your hidden guilts, fear, anger, and say “Cool” now I know what to accept.

Care less, just accept your emotions, including your shame and all types of fear, do something about it, learn from it and make it right. You can make it right. Care less, just support yourself. Be there to assist you because no one else will do.

You will be saved from Stress.

You will be happy.

You will feel lighter.

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