How lack of trust change someone’s mind and how to make them stay

So I was meditating on my bad habits whenever I am feeling so tensed. I realized that I am staring at the same location using my other eye. I cannot identify which eye, but I believe it’s the left eye.

This has me concerned because I was at the grocery store and I was just staying at the same place reading the labels, that the guard came over to check on me. Oh they thought I stole something hahaha. It was funny, I was only getting to know their products.

Is my staring habit so focused that it took me minutes just staring and not moving? Hahaha. Oh maybe their camera didn’t catch my whole body sitting like a frog in the women’s hygienic area. Sounds so scary, the guard scared me. Then I decided not to pick any of those.

Oh, did I just spent minutes reading and not buying anything? Of course I didn’t like their products. Or maybe I lost appetite because of the guard, my ego got touched. Now I know how to get rid of potential customers, scare them! Don’t trust them and just keep watching their every steps as if they’ll steal something if you’re not looking.

On the other hand, if you want someone to buy from you, stay with you, keep coming to you, you have to trust them, and allow them to get to know your product, allow them to read and diffinitely not force them to buy unless it’s a newspaper, that’s a total cheating act.

Let them speak their truth so you can improve your services. Feedback is not an issue, it’s definitely a very good source of knowledge. So let it be! Stressing yourself, fearing of it will only take away your enthusiasm. Do what you can, and allow them to correct you. Allow yourself to make mistakes because no matter how careful you are about everything, you will still incur mistake. Don’t believe it, but you’ll admit it.

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