How to deal with people who doesn’t trust you

Trust is very important but sadly it’s not easy to get. It is something you cannot steal. It has to be earned with consistency and of course commitment to consistency. Most importantly, it’s only temporary because of change. You have to constantly do something to achieve that tempo.

Patience is a virtue in earning trust. You cannot earn it overtime. You’ll have to keep showing it, you have to keep it open, and you have to be vulnerable.

It takes a lot of courage to do the best you can even if you think you really can’t make it. Trying itself and even saying YES to an unexpected and unknown thing, is a sign of faith, and if you have that, trust is easy to be given.

So, if you think someone doesn’t trust you yet, it’s because you’re not taking the risk of commitment. Commit yourself and do it, keep showing it, do not expect anything in return. Just do your part, keep improving yourself and eventually they’ll find a way to make them trust you.

The truth is, you cannot force someone to trust you, they’ll have to allow themselves to trust you. Some just trust to avoid physical pain, go with it even if they don’t like it, it’s like being a prostitute. Only a few says NO, like a NO NO NO and feel physical pain because it’s better than emotional pain, guilt of saying YES even if your answer is a big hell NO and a product of fear. But I learned from my CG teacher, she said, “If it’s not going to kill you, do it!” But she’s referring to work and good deeds. But the psychopath used that phrase to hurt others, it’s not going to kill them, it kills their victim.

But were not psychopaths, were good people, so let’s use it to do our best, the good things, pass your everything, achieve a lot of things. Reach your goals. Keep learning. Keep reading. Keep educating yourself. That’s how you handle people who doesn’t trust you.

And when they already trust you, now it’s up to you to trust them or not. Do not force yourself to trust them either, they must do something worth trusting for. It’s a fair game, isn’t it? And it’s Healthy too. Always do the right thing. If you want to be trusted. Don’t give your trust because life is a big test. They also don’t trust. They’re constantly checking on you.

But in dirty relationships, it’s not going to work out, the other will just take advantage of your craziness. That means, only crazy people trust. Hahaha. My cousin was right then. Kudos Boyet. Too bad she didn’t trust me when I told her she’s fine looking like his true self that he wants to change his figure into someone he isn’t made of.

Lesson learned from my own writing? Let the system change, don’t change your commitment to consistency, improvement, development, progress and most importantly kindness, knowledge, and expertise. “Always Trust Yourself and Yourself only.” Because in the end of the day, it’s just you and no one else will help you when you messed up because of their bad influence. I told you not to trust. People likes to play mind games, and if you fell for it, your fault.

Published by Pinky Rose

Hi My Name is Roselyn and I am a Graduate in Business Administration Major in Management Accounting. I wanted to pursue a degree related to Property Management. I saw Commerce as something new to me. The Mother side of the family have Nurses and I want to become a Doctor in Psychology. They're soldiers too! I applied for PAF but wasn't allowed to take the exam because of my Myopia. The father side are into Politics and Farming, I could have taken Political Science or Agriculture, but my choice goes to Accountancy because it sounds so cool and it has a board exam (a requirement to be a Scholar). There are also teachers on my father side. My father is a good farmer, I love his plants. I hope I can offer him something very important. He stopped schooling, he choose to help his parents at the farm instead. My Mother was emotional and stopped schooling too. Later on, she had me then my brother; until she became emotional again and stopped being our mother. Me? I am always blessed and loved by the Universe and the Earthlings, they saw my potential and eagerness to learn new things. I choose to stay and share my knowledge. I wanted to become someone with a different attitude towards life; I'd rather not give than give out of pity; so if I'll give you something, it means you deserve it, not out of bias; I also want to be treated the same, win or lose I'll feel better, as long as it is righteous. Losing/failing will help me change and do the right thing. I am also into writing because I have plenty of ideas. I hope to earn a PHD; research papers are quite interesting; I will really have fun! I am into dancing, just for fun; Dancing is so funny specially if you can't get the steps then getting it right after, it doesn't bore. Singing is my natural born talent but I'm just kidding, maybe not 😃 just manifesting it. I have a book at Amazon KDP : https://amazon.com/roselynmina; written mostly to thank those who have helped me grow spiritually. I finished my Caregiving Training from Feb 2019 to Jan 2020; then became a certified career since 2021. I am working on my personal business, to pursue my passion with a purpose to help the world heal emotionally. I am becoming successful in this kind of business and I claimed it, because I want to manifest it. I am a team player, I want to have fun. I am kindhearted and beautiful inside and out but don't get me wrong, it depends on the person I'm dealing with, I can be rude too like super rude! Taking advantage of me is big no no. You'll get what you deserve later on. I am a goal-oriented person, passionate in writing and sharing the right way. I am in love in all new things specially with JK's personality; he made me laugh out loud, it's so healing. My academic side isn't that bad but also not too good because I still have a lot of knowledge to earn. My friend advised me to exaggerate little achievements though to help me attract more of it. I have a good voice and a good sense of humor if I choose to let it all out. I am passionate and compassionate. I practice an attitude of gratitude. I prefer to be alone than be surrounded by bad influencial people, but I am keeping my heart open for the good guys too. I am receiving support from the Angelic Beings and a future husband that communicates with me telepathically; I'm not sure if I have met him already, all I know is that, he can guide me well. Whenever I am out of my mind and feeling like in danger, he takes over; I may or may not recognize him personally but it doesn't matter, I think he can but I have trust issues so it's normal to not meet him sooner and it's also normal to not recognize him, I guess he already knew. I have an eye in music and arts and love to cook for me. If you believe you will be healed if you'll ask me to heal you intuitively then you will, but it was you that heals you, not me. I can dance and laugh. I am treasuring happy memories. I welcome new experiences. I'm excited with first time events I can travel, take pictures of me with my coalleagues. I can contribute and be of service. I like Song Joongkis movies 😁 he's such a good actor, I have watched most of his movies, but all of his movies in Netflix. But above all, I really love Photography! It's beautiful and exciting to look for good angles. It's a great brain exercise to look at better things in life. ❤ Welcome to my Blog! You're allowed to share your thoughts in the comment sections. Also, please follow and share if you like my artwork. It will help me notice that we share the same values.

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