“Do unto you what you want others to do unto you.” – Roselyn Mina
Oh I am claiming that. It worked for me and I am always happy every time I take action. I have everything I want to recieve. Manifestation time!
It’s true, if I want appreciation, I appreciate myself! There’s no other unconditional most honest and authentic appreciation you will get aside from that appreciation that you provide for yourself. Not a fake one, because you know who you truly are.
If I want to be communicated by someone I wish would talk to me, oh I talked to myself as if I am the best version of the man whom I wanted attention from. Guess what, I am highly satisfied with my own act! Hah! Such a good actress isn’t it.
Of course! And if I want you to recognize me, I recognize myself right now. In the end of the day, what I truly wanted to receive recognition from is from myself itself. That’s why school successes, other successes doesn’t satisfy my hearts desire. It only have value for me once I started giving value to it. So be it.
Acknowledgements, love of someone, forgiveness, acceptance, sympathy, empathy, everything you want, you already have it within you. Give it to yourself first! Forget about, “Do unto others what you want others do unto you.” It’s like a dream that will never come true! Oh well, to some maybe? Who knows, karma is real.
It is your duty to provide yourself everything you needed. Depending it to others will get you nowhere. You will get stuck because you’re waiting for some miracles, for some reliable someone that could help you. Stand, do not wait for others to pull you up, not all people are Jesus like creatures, and when they die who else will pull you up? You must learn how to pull yourself up!
Who else will? Nobody will, but you! So now, be your true self. If you can do it to others, you can do it to yourself. The reason why you’re so disappointed, is because, you keep giving and not receiving; Why? Because you’re not giving it for yourself, your giving it for them to be happy. Sorry, but you can’t make people happy, they have to choose it. Why not do it for you instead? And receive full credits. Efforts not wasted. It’s a win win right? How’s that? Accept yourself! Acknowledge yourself. Thank yourself! Celebrate your own success! Not a self pity, but a self acceptance.