Getting out from my Comfort zone #9: Winning Against The Emotional Self; Featuring JPark Watersports and Casino, Cebu Philippines

August is my Birth-month. I am naturally outgoing if I’m not being stubborn. I can easily get stressed by almost everything that’s against my ideas, but how I handle life stresses will even make me become a better person, once again if I am not being stubborn.

I have so much ideas and so much things I want to do and work on; all of which are good ones, that’s for sure; but because of this stubbornness, I’ll give myself a lot of reasons not to do it, to stop myself and just act like “Powerless”. So when I am being bullshitted and challenged, that’s when I started being me.

I am one of the opposite, I always needed a warm up. If someone tries to pull me down, and intentionally give me stresses or give me lots of criticism, I would even become better, because “I found something to conquer and I’m always having fun winning.” Oh, here comes my birthday, I sensed some people being unsupportive, thanks to them, I earned the courage to stand for myself and build Self Trust.

You see, either ways, I will still be happy. Even if I will be rejected or appreciated, loved or unloved, the result will always be on my side in the end, because I just knew how to play this game called Mind Games. I realized that trying to pull someone down is actually pulling yourself down, but being supportive thankful and grateful gave you less stress and a happy life that you deserve. A happy life is a happy brain; a happy brain comes happy outcomes.

Being a good person doesn’t mean, you’re not a fighter; if you’re a good person and you’re winning, that means you have won against yourself. The emotional self that the enemies feed, is your greatest enemy; winning against yourself is real success. Accepting the thinking mind behind your opponents and their plans, whether it’s for your own good or not is a BIG PLUS. Letting them be themselves and accepting themselves for their behaviour will help you do the right thing and it’s a sure win.

I was once a wrong fighter, I fought to change others instead of changing myself because I thought I’m always right and thought it has something to do about me. I can’t accept that I didn’t matter, so I want to change them for that. But when I started accepting that truth, I moved on, I change myself from being a wanter to becoming a doer, because I have accepted that no matter what I do, it’s never going to change the mind of any person who doesn’t want to change. I wasted my anger trying to change my mother’s behaviour because I care too much, but I’ve had enough, I learned my lesson.

Acceptance is always the key. I learned from our CG lesson that the only time someone will seek for treatment is after accepting that she’s actually sick, then she gets treated, and if you believe in miracles, a dying person will recover, but that’s also accompanied by treatment. Faith is not faith if you’re not doing the right thing, and you kept on refusing anything that can activate the Placebo effect. Take it and believe in the result that you want to get.

So here we are, accepting our weakness and getting out from our comfort zone to grow and see the world that we just dreamt because we just didn’t take action in the past due to lack of trust and believe in our selves that we actually can; but mostly, because of the lies you told yourself and you hear from others which you also unintentionally believed that kept you stubborn and not doing anything.

Everything can do everything to help themselves and we can start by little exercises everyday, no matter how short it is as long as we are doing something and we are developing a good habit that will improve in the long run. Even a child learned walking by doing little steps at a time, holding until he/she is able to let go and develop balance.

I’m 28 and I finally traveled alone in a nature and in this rich neighborhood, call it JPark. I had a blast! Birthday wishes do come true! I never thought I can do it, but guess what, I did it, I did it, I did it! I went alone and got a chance to Vlog a little. It’s time to start Vlogging! Please follow my FB Page 🧘

Enjoy the Photos I took from JPARK! I am a proud visitor and a proud witness that Lapu Lapu City, Cebu Philippines actually have a good beach. I have been to many of those little beaches, even the big beaches in Cebu North and South, but nothing satisfied me. But JPark Beach Front, amazed me! It’s because of the work of Art and how BIG and long it is!!! You must see it all!!!

From the white little tents from at the left side to where I took this photo- that’s how huge it is! Omg all. I am so proud and happy to invite you all in.
I was standing there taking the first pic.
See Photo #4
This is the closest look of Photo #3
This is the farthest look of Photo #4
This is the closest look of the white tents in Photo #1 My location is the same in Photo #5.

These Photos are the Beach front Photos, but the Inside of JPark will amazed you more with it’s calmness and therapeutic effect. From the Birds Chirping including the Kokok you can only hear in the deepest forest in the Mountains, I also heard it– to the deepest green grasses and Big houses within the Park, with chairs and hammocks everywhere, electric vehicle that you can drive while standing, to roam around the place– A golf course, and 6 Swimming pools Inside– With the longest slide and the other Boomerang type of water activity– The pool looks like a River.

You’ll See the Amazon River inside. In this video, I showed you half of the Place while on my way Back to The Main Venue. I have so much to show you. Please like the video to show support. I will also upload the videos I took while going to the BeachFront.

The world is an amazing place to live if you know where to look.
Aside from the racing sport activities, paddling, kayaking, etc. There’s also A volleyball place for everyone!!
It’s waiting for you in Mactan Lapu Lapu City, Cebu Philippines! 🧘 Arrive safely it’s Minutes away from the International Airport In Mactan Lapu Lapu City, Cebu Phillipnes.

Published by Pinky Rose

Hi My Name is Roselyn and I am a Graduate in Business Administration Major in Management Accounting. I wanted to pursue a degree related to Property Management. I saw Commerce as something new to me. The Mother side of the family have Nurses and I want to become a Doctor in Psychology. They're soldiers too! I applied for PAF but wasn't allowed to take the exam because of my Myopia. The father side are into Politics and Farming, I could have taken Political Science or Agriculture, but my choice goes to Accountancy because it sounds so cool and it has a board exam (a requirement to be a Scholar). There are also teachers on my father side. My father is a good farmer, I love his plants. I hope I can offer him something very important. He stopped schooling, he choose to help his parents at the farm instead. My Mother was emotional and stopped schooling too. Later on, she had me then my brother; until she became emotional again and stopped being our mother. Me? I am always blessed and loved by the Universe and the Earthlings, they saw my potential and eagerness to learn new things. I choose to stay and share my knowledge. I wanted to become someone with a different attitude towards life; I'd rather not give than give out of pity; so if I'll give you something, it means you deserve it, not out of bias; I also want to be treated the same, win or lose I'll feel better, as long as it is righteous. Losing/failing will help me change and do the right thing. I am also into writing because I have plenty of ideas. I hope to earn a PHD; research papers are quite interesting; I will really have fun! I am into dancing, just for fun; Dancing is so funny specially if you can't get the steps then getting it right after, it doesn't bore. Singing is my natural born talent but I'm just kidding, maybe not 😃 just manifesting it. I have a book at Amazon KDP : https://amazon.com/roselynmina; written mostly to thank those who have helped me grow spiritually. I finished my Caregiving Training from Feb 2019 to Jan 2020; then became a certified career since 2021. I am working on my personal business, to pursue my passion with a purpose to help the world heal emotionally. I am becoming successful in this kind of business and I claimed it, because I want to manifest it. I am a team player, I want to have fun. I am kindhearted and beautiful inside and out but don't get me wrong, it depends on the person I'm dealing with, I can be rude too like super rude! Taking advantage of me is big no no. You'll get what you deserve later on. I am a goal-oriented person, passionate in writing and sharing the right way. I am in love in all new things specially with JK's personality; he made me laugh out loud, it's so healing. My academic side isn't that bad but also not too good because I still have a lot of knowledge to earn. My friend advised me to exaggerate little achievements though to help me attract more of it. I have a good voice and a good sense of humor if I choose to let it all out. I am passionate and compassionate. I practice an attitude of gratitude. I prefer to be alone than be surrounded by bad influencial people, but I am keeping my heart open for the good guys too. I am receiving support from the Angelic Beings and a future husband that communicates with me telepathically; I'm not sure if I have met him already, all I know is that, he can guide me well. Whenever I am out of my mind and feeling like in danger, he takes over; I may or may not recognize him personally but it doesn't matter, I think he can but I have trust issues so it's normal to not meet him sooner and it's also normal to not recognize him, I guess he already knew. I have an eye in music and arts and love to cook for me. If you believe you will be healed if you'll ask me to heal you intuitively then you will, but it was you that heals you, not me. I can dance and laugh. I am treasuring happy memories. I welcome new experiences. I'm excited with first time events I can travel, take pictures of me with my coalleagues. I can contribute and be of service. I like Song Joongkis movies 😁 he's such a good actor, I have watched most of his movies, but all of his movies in Netflix. But above all, I really love Photography! It's beautiful and exciting to look for good angles. It's a great brain exercise to look at better things in life. ❤ Welcome to my Blog! You're allowed to share your thoughts in the comment sections. Also, please follow and share if you like my artwork. It will help me notice that we share the same values.

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