August is my Birth-month. I am naturally outgoing if I’m not being stubborn. I can easily get stressed by almost everything that’s against my ideas, but how I handle life stresses will even make me become a better person, once again if I am not being stubborn.
I have so much ideas and so much things I want to do and work on; all of which are good ones, that’s for sure; but because of this stubbornness, I’ll give myself a lot of reasons not to do it, to stop myself and just act like “Powerless”. So when I am being bullshitted and challenged, that’s when I started being me.
I am one of the opposite, I always needed a warm up. If someone tries to pull me down, and intentionally give me stresses or give me lots of criticism, I would even become better, because “I found something to conquer and I’m always having fun winning.” Oh, here comes my birthday, I sensed some people being unsupportive, thanks to them, I earned the courage to stand for myself and build Self Trust.
You see, either ways, I will still be happy. Even if I will be rejected or appreciated, loved or unloved, the result will always be on my side in the end, because I just knew how to play this game called Mind Games. I realized that trying to pull someone down is actually pulling yourself down, but being supportive thankful and grateful gave you less stress and a happy life that you deserve. A happy life is a happy brain; a happy brain comes happy outcomes.
Being a good person doesn’t mean, you’re not a fighter; if you’re a good person and you’re winning, that means you have won against yourself. The emotional self that the enemies feed, is your greatest enemy; winning against yourself is real success. Accepting the thinking mind behind your opponents and their plans, whether it’s for your own good or not is a BIG PLUS. Letting them be themselves and accepting themselves for their behaviour will help you do the right thing and it’s a sure win.
I was once a wrong fighter, I fought to change others instead of changing myself because I thought I’m always right and thought it has something to do about me. I can’t accept that I didn’t matter, so I want to change them for that. But when I started accepting that truth, I moved on, I change myself from being a wanter to becoming a doer, because I have accepted that no matter what I do, it’s never going to change the mind of any person who doesn’t want to change. I wasted my anger trying to change my mother’s behaviour because I care too much, but I’ve had enough, I learned my lesson.
Acceptance is always the key. I learned from our CG lesson that the only time someone will seek for treatment is after accepting that she’s actually sick, then she gets treated, and if you believe in miracles, a dying person will recover, but that’s also accompanied by treatment. Faith is not faith if you’re not doing the right thing, and you kept on refusing anything that can activate the Placebo effect. Take it and believe in the result that you want to get.
So here we are, accepting our weakness and getting out from our comfort zone to grow and see the world that we just dreamt because we just didn’t take action in the past due to lack of trust and believe in our selves that we actually can; but mostly, because of the lies you told yourself and you hear from others which you also unintentionally believed that kept you stubborn and not doing anything.
Everything can do everything to help themselves and we can start by little exercises everyday, no matter how short it is as long as we are doing something and we are developing a good habit that will improve in the long run. Even a child learned walking by doing little steps at a time, holding until he/she is able to let go and develop balance.
I’m 28 and I finally traveled alone in a nature and in this rich neighborhood, call it JPark. I had a blast! Birthday wishes do come true! I never thought I can do it, but guess what, I did it, I did it, I did it! I went alone and got a chance to Vlog a little. It’s time to start Vlogging! Please follow my FB Page 🧘
Enjoy the Photos I took from JPARK! I am a proud visitor and a proud witness that Lapu Lapu City, Cebu Philippines actually have a good beach. I have been to many of those little beaches, even the big beaches in Cebu North and South, but nothing satisfied me. But JPark Beach Front, amazed me! It’s because of the work of Art and how BIG and long it is!!! You must see it all!!!
These Photos are the Beach front Photos, but the Inside of JPark will amazed you more with it’s calmness and therapeutic effect. From the Birds Chirping including the Kokok you can only hear in the deepest forest in the Mountains, I also heard it– to the deepest green grasses and Big houses within the Park, with chairs and hammocks everywhere, electric vehicle that you can drive while standing, to roam around the place– A golf course, and 6 Swimming pools Inside– With the longest slide and the other Boomerang type of water activity– The pool looks like a River.
You’ll See the Amazon River inside. In this video, I showed you half of the Place while on my way Back to The Main Venue. I have so much to show you. Please like the video to show support. I will also upload the videos I took while going to the BeachFront.