So, it’s holiday! I mean it’s a weekend! A lot to be thankful for, a lot to accept and to let go. It’s time to focus back on your personal health and well being. A time to detach and a time to let go of the thoughts that belongs to the past to give room for today’s gift.
It’s hard to forget old memories involving conflicts; unresolved misunderstandings remained hot. The only way to let go is to accept what happened and just move on. The “How” question comes in and the only answer is “Just do what’s next.” Try another way.
You can’t change people, but you can change yourself. The next time you badly want to change, change yourself instead. It’s not them who needs changing, sometimes it is just you. You have to learn how to accept more in order to let go more. The more you accept, the more you let go. The more you eat, the more you poo. See the logic? So don’t be scared of acceptance.
People needs acceptance in order for you and them to be able to let go of each other, grow and move on from the past and of each other. Some people just can’t change, they became bitter every single time you gave them the chance. If you’re not the problem, then accept them for who they are then you’re free to let go.
You can move on. Do it one step at a time. You can accept, practice respect. They have the right to decide for their lives. The right to learn and the right to be themselves. The best you can do is to move on on your own. It’s a lonely road to take but it’s the most peaceful way to handle it.