It’s indecision. We’re stuck because we’re undecided; even if we already knew that it’s a “YES” we still can’t say it. We already knew, but we did not see it. Or even if we already see it, we just didn’t trust ourselves.
A friend of mine, told me to just say “YES”. Yes, I can! But sometimes, you have to say NO. Learn to say NO, learn to respect yourself. Learn to love your self. Listen to your self and be there to help.
Decide now! Just do it! Things happen for a reason. Forgive, but keep moving on. Once is enough for a wise man. So, they did it to them, they’re going to do it again, and again.
Life is amazing! Keep believing. Know that it’s not about money, nor job, nor family, nor whatever that kept you stuck; those are just reasons for you to stay. Those fears kept you staying. It’s the fear of making the wrong choice.
But “What if” again, kept you stuck. If we’re no longer communicating and opening up, then it’s not working. If there’s jealousy and the other doesn’t want to help or be helped, then it’s no longer working. Just move on. It’s never too late to start again.