I had so much painful experiences; from being too pushy to being paranoid like my mom; but most of the time, I am just relaxed. Although, like giving birth to a new you or a new world, new connections; like giving birth to a big child, you must feel the pain, hold it until it’s time for them to come out. Let them go when it’s their time to.
Rejections are really painful as well. But these too is an opportunity to find something even better. But, one must feel the pain first in order to be transformed into a new you; a better version of you.
Separation is the worst pain but it’s also the best medicine. Sometimes, it’s all we needed in order to get the peace we need, the clarity that we needed and the growth that we needed.
All pains; they’re just temporary. Some things has to be broken in order to build something new. It is far, but you know you can do it. It is long distance but you know you can grow out from it.
Grow up! Be with friends, have fun when competing. Live the life you deserve; be better. Love your husband, be real. Make friends, but know your priorities. If you’re single, then be with family and be there for you. Listen.