A lot will be gone, many will leave; giving rooms for the new people whom you deserve to be connected with. Let go of these toxic connections:
- Pushing you to someone else when you needed their help.
- Always around acting like a friend but an ill wisher, gossiping you behind your back.
- Helping you out of pity.
- Making others the priority.
- Question your presence.
- Not giving you credits.
- Crediting others over your inputs.
- Hurting your emotions so you will chase after them.
- Making you feel alone and not good enough.
Believe me, I met all those people already. Luckily, I got out safe from depression. I decided to keep going, claimed what I deserve and worked on it instead of hoping for fishes to climb up trees. I am enough and they are not needed. I deserve all my attention and love instead of doing things for others and being taken for granted; it hurts and they knew it, yet they still did it.
They want you to let them go, they want you to forget them, but at the same time they want to be chased, then they’ll be angry and blame you for everything. In that case, you are being manipulated by their words. Listen but chose the one who actually did it, because there’s always what we called the right person; the one who walked what others talked.
How to let go of that toxic man?
- Know your worth.
- Do it yourself.
- Be your true self; you’re real!
- Move on to the right… Keep moving on until you find the real one for you!
- Always remember that you deserve a real connection.
When you’re happy, things became easy and manageable. When you’re stressed, it’s because you have other thoughts aside from the happy once. Don’t let it bother you; bank on your happiness and forgiveness; perform and shine now, because it’s time to give the judges a good show!
After I started letting go of them, I have been redirected to my dreams, my dream everything; even the people, etc. I was like living a life I really wanted. I’ll sustain it and I’ll be thankful and grateful everyday of my life for the blessings I received.