Seeing the difference is quite a challenge. Like for example, what’s the difference between someone who is real to you from someone who is just camouflaging.
In front of you, she agrees like super agree, no need to argue. Acting like a supporter, who agrees all your words, bad or good. But behind your back she talks evilly of you like she doesn’t care, because she doesn’t.
Oh well, if you want a real person, listen carefully, because that woman or man will argue with you, will disagree if she doesn’t like it. Most importantly, she doesn’t need your appreciation. She’s just being herself. You get what you deserve without bias. Family or not, close friends or not, she’s the same.
Guess why there are long term relationships? Because they are real, they’re being themselves. They don’t care if relationship breaks, well if it does then it’s not strong enough. If given a second chance to build something stronger, they’ll do it. Until all the broken pieces be put into its rightful places.
There’s of course reasons behind all people’s acts. There are what we call intentions. Others act with good intentions like to teach someone or to treat a child, anything done for good reasons.
On the worst case scenario, the person acts based on what the person wants, simply to take advantage of the other. Oh well, they simply knew your weakness and they played along, but behind your back and in terms of needs, the real attitude comes out.
Oops, later you found out, the real them. But some cannot believe it, so like crazy, oh well, it’s called craziness if you stayed still. Some are acting like blinds to cover up the shame of being neglected, abandoned and humiliated. Oh that was once me by the way.
So if you want real people, be with people who will show you the real them in front of you. And if you can’t deal with them or if they’re too much for you, then accept it so you can move on. Fitting in to places you have outgrown is another foolishness. It’s like fitting in a short that doesn’t fit on you anymore. It will only destroy it, give it to someone who suits it well. Trying to get in back to your mothers womb while you’re already too big, you can’t really fit in, you’re just wasting time.
Remember that there are also others who act big but are small headed. Be careful not to be deceived, check it out, don’t be deceived. Look at it. Look around them. Observe to see the truth.
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