4 Signs that you must change, move on and choose yourself NOW

We all learned from our mistakes; we all learned from the bad decisions we made in the past. The doubts we’ve had caused us to decide poorly. We wasted so much time trying to fix something we knew all the time that it couldn’t be forced.

Sometimes, we’ll have to accept the fact that we’re being rejected and that they chose someone else’s better than you, not because you are too bad, but because you deserve to grow and be the best version of yourself for the right person waiting for you to grow.

So far, here are the goods signs I have collected that will guide to help decide to choose yourself NOW, before others:

1. If the person have petty on you and is asking for more, then when you gave it, you’re expecting something in return, then they chose someone else after.

• There’s nothing wrong with you, you’re being tricked. Lesson for you: accept big things next time because you can do more. Besides, you don’t deserve petty from someone who’s pity-ful. Show them what you’ve got, choose yourself.

2. You’re only sticking to that person because you think without him you can’t do anything better; even if you’re already doing everything, you’re still not appreciated; that person is not good for you.

• You’re being manipulated to stay; you must realized that you deserve someone who sees your worth like how you see others.

3. If the person chose to defend others in front of you like you are the worst in the world, then he’s not your person; you must retreat; you can’t win a terrible listener.

• Choose your battle, and choose something you can win. The right person will acknowledge your feelings and will not make you feel invalidated.

4. If they took all the credits of everything that you have initiated to make them shine.

• Perfect! You’re being surrounded by a narcissist. You deserve someone who is proud to say that “You’re amazing!” “You did your best! Thank you!” “Here’s what you can do to improve more.”

Always choose yourself, by moving on and pursuing the dreams that you put on hold because you were busy preparing for it. Remember that nobody would pull you down if they’re not seeing you at the top.

Maybe your light shine so bright that they feel so insecure about; give them the spotlight while giving them a nice show. You deserve strong people like you. I found mine and decided to stay. Yes, it’s hard, but I know that if I’ll perform I will be appreciated more than I deserve.