Char! Sometimes, the reason why we’re not getting what we really wanted, it’s because we’re focusing at the wrong side. Pushing so hard only means it’s not the right door if it doesn’t open.
It’s the same pattern with people,but someone still choose somebody else, then she’s not the right person for you, look at the other side. If you’re focusing too much on the wrong side trying to fit in, angry, frustrated of yourself why you’re too naive not to get to know others; then you know you have to go out there to be with the right people.
I know that when I am not thinking straight or scared and not choosing what’s urgent, I am being stubborn and I am too smart to have so much valid reasons to support my stubbornness. Sometimes, you just have to relax and do something else aside from the world that kept you smaller. You must come out in order for your to experience your grown up self.
When you’re scared of following your gut feeling because you hated it, still do it. Feel the hatred because that’s just temporary, push yourself up not down. Sometimes, you just have to stand up for yourself, even if you’re so scared of being put to shame. It’s better to be roasted, than to stay angry of yourself not doing anything great.
Direct your attention to the right focus. Are you focusing at the right direction? Where are you heading? Are you heading the right way? Are you procrastinating? Are you scared of failing? Are you scared of being laughed at? Guess what, it’s better to laugh at yourself later on after you become successful. Just do it and have faith and trust that you can! If you won’t give it a try, how will you know if you can or can’t handle it.
Before doing so, remember this quote from a billionaire, “Whether you think you can or can’t, you’re right.” There’s no wrong from thinking that YOU Can. Just do it! Make it happen.