Directing attention to the right focus

Char! Sometimes, the reason why we’re not getting what we really wanted, it’s because we’re focusing at the wrong side. Pushing so hard only means it’s not the right door if it doesn’t open.

It’s the same pattern with people,but someone still choose somebody else, then she’s not the right person for you, look at the other side. If you’re focusing too much on the wrong side trying to fit in, angry, frustrated of yourself why you’re too naive not to get to know others; then you know you have to go out there to be with the right people.

I know that when I am not thinking straight or scared and not choosing what’s urgent, I am being stubborn and I am too smart to have so much valid reasons to support my stubbornness. Sometimes, you just have to relax and do something else aside from the world that kept you smaller. You must come out in order for your to experience your grown up self.

When you’re scared of following your gut feeling because you hated it, still do it. Feel the hatred because that’s just temporary, push yourself up not down. Sometimes, you just have to stand up for yourself, even if you’re so scared of being put to shame. It’s better to be roasted, than to stay angry of yourself not doing anything great.

Direct your attention to the right focus. Are you focusing at the right direction? Where are you heading? Are you heading the right way? Are you procrastinating? Are you scared of failing? Are you scared of being laughed at? Guess what, it’s better to laugh at yourself later on after you become successful. Just do it and have faith and trust that you can! If you won’t give it a try, how will you know if you can or can’t handle it.

Before doing so, remember this quote from a billionaire, “Whether you think you can or can’t, you’re right.” There’s no wrong from thinking that YOU Can. Just do it! Make it happen.

Published by Pinky Rose

I am a graduate in Business Administration major in Management Accounting but I'm not really practicing it 😁 It made me sound cool and I loved it. Although, I am still working with one of the most prestigious financial company in the entire Universe 👍. But I will become a Certified Broker before I turn 40. I decided to take up Commerce before because it was something new to me; the mother side of the family have Nurses and I want to become a Doctor in Psychology now; a psychiatrist and I am my first patient 🤫, it's so natural to me; they're soldiers too, but I wasn't allowed to take the exam the last time I applied for PAF because of my myopia. The father side are into politics, I could have taken political science but it wasn't offered at my University back then but if it was offered, I still wouldn't get it because it's expensive and I was only a scholar back then; but mostly, on my father side, they're teachers. My father is a good farmer, I hope I can offer him something very important. He doesn't like school he choose to help his parents when he was young. He doesn't like school; he likes women 😂 and my mother likes men 😂, I mean, they liked dating more than putting themselves to school for whatever reasons, I don't believe it; they could have done it if they only choose it. I ended up pursuing the new way where it doesn't follow any of them; I can feel how they looked down at my parents because they haven't finished anything; they never stopped destroying them until my family's broken. So me, I graduated in Business Administration in which none of them have pursued; I wanted to become someone with a different attitude towards life; I'd rather not give than give out of pity. I am also into writing because they're not really into writing. I am into dancing because these people don't really dance. Singing is my natural born talent 😂 but I'm just kidding. I have a book at Amazon KDP : https://amazon.com/roselynmina; written mostly to thank those who have helped me grow spiritually. I finished my Caregiving Training from Feb 2019 to Jan 2020; then became a certified career since 2021. I am working on my personal business, to pursue my passion with a purpose to help spread good vibes. I am becoming successful in this kind of business, I claimed it, because I want to manifest it. I am a team player, I want to have fun. I am kindhearted, yes I am. I am beautiful inside and out, charot. I am a goal-oriented person. I am passionate in writing. I am passionate in sharing. I am in love in all new things. I am in love with JK's personality; he made me laugh out loud, it's so healing. I have great success in my academic side, my friend advised me to exaggerate little achievements to help me attract more of it 🤣. It's a mind trick. I have a good voice. I have a good sense of humor. I have passion. I have compassion. I have an attitude of gratitude. I have friends who's always with me in my ups and downs. I have an acting mother coz she likes acting dead, her broken-heart is dead 🤣 I have great support from the angels. I have a best friend who communicates with me telepathically. I have an eye in music and arts. I love to cook for me. I love to tell good news. I love to be of help. I love to help but not too much. I love to heal. I love to dance. I love to laugh. I love BTS. I love happy memories. I love new experiences. I love first time experiences. I love travelling. I love taking pictures of me and my coalleagues. It's called selfie 😛. I love being me, childish around close friends but I little distant with new acquaintances, I have trust issues 😂. I love to contribute. I love to appreciate. I love to be of service. I love to work lightly. I practice tarot card reading; but actually, I just listened to them, I can learn from listening. I practice song writing, but these days I watch Joongkis movies 😁 he's such a good actor. I practice poem writing but I also stopped coz sometimes it's just boring. I don't care if you will bless me. I don't Care if you will love me and accept me for who I am and what I am not. I don't care if you will marry me or not but I hope you will, haha. I love wearing hanbok but I don't really have one. I don't care if you will praise me or not. I don't care, your choice! I will still be happy no matter what; even if it's just a joke. Aside from that, I really love Photography 🤭

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