“Smiling” as an act of full acceptance. You may now stop freezing

Once, there was a child, wondering what life was; observant of her surroundings, learning from others, eager to help.

Doubts creeps in, she wanted to make sure; she looked, compared, see the difference, and change. Was it cheating?

In school, it was; but in life, it wasn’t; because if you won’t open your eyes now, you’ll remain unchanged. One must accept that you are wrong; so we can change it, while there’s still a chance.

Change, is the right thing to do; but if you’re not seeing the difference, then how will you make the change? Therefore, we must keep our eyes and ears, open.

I changed. I chose to be happy; I chose to accept what is. I am free! What’s no longer here, is no longer; what we still have, we still have; live now or forever waste your chances of making a difference.

So I did, what’s a must, thanks to the friends that was around; but before that, I was again frozen, undecided.

There was a raffle conducted privately; I was invited, so I joined. On the 2nd stage, I have already lost the appetite. I asked myself, confused, “Why do I have to login and update it, when it’s already updated?” So I skipped, unsure, wondering if I did it right…

… I was out of my mind, confused. I wrote my name on the 3rd stage and handed out a gift. Again, I wondered, what was it for? I let it be. I didn’t ask anything. Now for the 4th stage— I saw a woman, she was rolling her hands inside a bowl, full of papers…

…when she was done. I looked, and search for the target; I had a hint, but it was unintentional. So I pushed myself, to that direction; “oops 😬, I took a lot of those papers, sorry.” She joked, “Cheating.. ” but it was unintentional, so I picked one from those papers, unopened.

She congratulated me! I was again confused πŸ€” “Should I be happy? Should I be angry?” I was frozen. I must be happier, for winning that thing I have always wanted; but I wasn’t…

… I waited for them to be happy for me. Gladly, there was “Her” , who’s happy in my behalf. I must be happy! In the end, I did what’s right. I chose to be happy.

That child, was confused, by the differences she saw; freeze herself in fear of making the wrong choices; afraid of taking risk; have decided to be happy, no matter what happened.

Lesson learned: If you’re confused, choose to be happy! You may look stupid, but atleast you’re happy. It may sound crazy, but you’re saving yourself from freezing and that’s freaking cold.

Be happy! 😬πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜‹πŸ˜Š

I know, it’s hard to be human; but if you can “Smile,” you’ll make the worst situation, better. So smile, even if it’s only within. We don’t really know anything. We just thought we knew, because that’s what they told us…

… but guess what, people change. And changed people, change people.

Do you agree?

Published by irose

Hi! I'm Roselyn! Username: irose PayPal (In case you wanna sponsor me www.paypal.me/RoselynMina I am a life warrior. I have been through shit, running away from my bliss. But I guess, I've had enough that I want to just be myself. *My mother dreamt of something great; I think I am doing it, this time!β›„

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