I remember when I was younger, I was always scared of what’s going to happen next. I always depended on someone or anyone. I don’t have my own voice, or I’m always seeking for someone else to do it for me or someone to lead for me to follow. I was surrounded with people whoContinue reading “The Fear of Consequences”
Tag Archives: Acceptance
Accept all there is
Sometimes, you just have to accept the gifts that you already have and make use of it in order to get to where you want to be. If you want to meet and work with the best, then “Do it”, be the best. If you want to be surrounded by the best people, then “DoContinue reading “Accept all there is”
Spot the real ones and choose them
Before getting the courage to trust my gut feeling; I had met people who are really bad at giving credits to the good things I did to them in the past. While others get credited in my behalf, I am left disappointed at the back. So, to know if you’re at the right place andContinue reading “Spot the real ones and choose them”
When the future scares you, stay in the moment
Sometimes, I have this fear of repeating the same mistakes my parents did in the past with their relationship. Instead of facing the shame about that, and feeling this family guilt, I would run away and act like I don’t exist. But because I am a grown-up woman now, running away is no longer anContinue reading “When the future scares you, stay in the moment”
How to be resilient in stressful situation
Today, I was lost; well, I feel like I was lost, I couldn’t find my team anywhere. I kept on going back and forth; I think the people there were wondering. I’m so sorry, but I have totally lost them. I walked away because I got disappointed and I lost my focus; it’s hard toContinue reading “How to be resilient in stressful situation”
Learn from your shames
There is something I am so scared of being and that is, being embarrassed. In the past, I would do everything in my power just to avoid embarrassing situations; but it’s taking away my freedom. Right now, I’m going to change that approach. I wanted to just accept the fact that it happened and IContinue reading “Learn from your shames”
Why pursue the things that scares you
Big things are scary, it always will be; yet behind that feeling is a big dream waiting for you; all you have to do is take that first step, be there and be present. Easy pissy, but the thought of change is overwhelming and yet it’s the only way to move forward. Yes, I wasContinue reading “Why pursue the things that scares you”
Relax, and trust your instincts as well as the process
I was just a child, now I’m an adult. I never thought I would be engaging with the best people in the world. Sometimes, I feel like I couldn’t make it, but sometimes I feel like, “you know what, it’s just a feeling; let’s try it.” I had full of doubts, not of others butContinue reading “Relax, and trust your instincts as well as the process”
Enjoying the little things in life
These past few days, I realized that when I spend most of my time observing little things that matters, it made me feel grateful about life. Like watching these beautiful cat family we have. It all started with just one kitten. She gave birth with many batches, they all died; until I decided to feedContinue reading “Enjoying the little things in life”
Adventure is best the 2nd time around, at Mt. Manunggal
Two years ago, I have finally visited Mt. Manunggal. Two years after, I came back to camp and to visit the rock formation. It’s always in my heart, to be back there and we finally did it, April 9, 2023; with a couple. I always feel happy whenever I am surrounded by lovers. Now IContinue reading “Adventure is best the 2nd time around, at Mt. Manunggal”
Climbing, Rocks! 