Don’t change analysis; not everything needs change

Rest days had gone, I’m thankful and grateful for the time I spent with me, reading, cooking, washing clothes, talking with acquaintances and of course writing anything I can think of. I’m done with travelling for this year, but maybe I will do one or two more in December 2023. I just want to seeContinue reading “Don’t change analysis; not everything needs change”

This little secret to happiness is life-changing

Do it because you want to, not because you’re forced to. Happiness is a choice but why do you have to choose if it can happen automatically with zero to less effort, just by simply doing what truly makes you happy. Knowing what makes you really happy is like HEAVEN. I had a chat withContinue reading “This little secret to happiness is life-changing”

Face your fears NOW or forever feel frustrated for not doing what really makes you happy

I used to care about other people’s feelings. I’m not doing what makes me happy because others will get jealous or sad about it. I was living under someone else’s shadow. I could have done so many before if only I have trusted myself a little more. There’s always fear in every heights that youContinue reading “Face your fears NOW or forever feel frustrated for not doing what really makes you happy”

Think again, are you really happy with your actions?

Alone time reminds us that we can be independent too. Sometimes, when we became too dependent to a group of people, friends, family, etc.; we often forget that we can do things on our own too, without them. Dependency only stopped you from doing things that makes you totally happy. If others can’t and youContinue reading “Think again, are you really happy with your actions?”

Sometimes, all you need is a nice massage for something to make sense

I went for another massage today and it felt so great! The mixture of Coldness and pain really felt great. I realized that when you feel frozen, all you need is a medium push! Push it and you’ll feel it; that’s the time when you feel really alive. While she’s massaging, these thoughts came toContinue reading “Sometimes, all you need is a nice massage for something to make sense”

Taking a walk with friends with good ears will make you happy

After shift, we ate out! Little things that are too good for me already. When you’re surrounded by supportive people, you can eat what you want! I just wanna say, “Thank you” to them for keeping me company and for chosing to stay. It’s okay to be alone, but it’s so nice to be withContinue reading “Taking a walk with friends with good ears will make you happy”

Blessings comes naturally after deciding to let go of toxic connections

A lot will be gone, many will leave; giving rooms for the new people whom you deserve to be connected with. Let go of these toxic connections: Believe me, I met all those people already. Luckily, I got out safe from depression. I decided to keep going, claimed what I deserve and worked on itContinue reading “Blessings comes naturally after deciding to let go of toxic connections”

Focus on the happy side of life, be redirected!

Life is really complicated sometimes. One day, you feel tired, and your dependency tempt you to be around the wrong people. Sometimes, when you’re sad, you’ll do something you shouldn’t do. So, focus on the happy side of life. Let go of anything who disrespects you, rejected you, and replaced you with someone else. Sometimes,Continue reading “Focus on the happy side of life, be redirected!”

Learn to embrace pain; be happy instead

Giving birth to a new you is painful. Being left behind is painful. Being replaced by someone whom others think are better than you is painful. Leaving those people so you can grow and find your tribe is painful. Being alone is also painful. Everything in this world that involves change and growth is painful;Continue reading “Learn to embrace pain; be happy instead”

Gratitude is the new way; taking revenge was the old way; find that one piece

“You have been chosen; you are being accepted and entrusted; embrace it and take care of it; claim your luck! Take responsibility!” Sometimes, you must stop acting that you’re not good enough; it’s like saying the people who saw your potential, “You’re a liar.” Sometimes, you have to validate others ability to see your worthContinue reading “Gratitude is the new way; taking revenge was the old way; find that one piece”