Giving birth to a new you is painful. Being left behind is painful. Being replaced by someone whom others think are better than you is painful. Leaving those people so you can grow and find your tribe is painful. Being alone is also painful. Everything in this world that involves change and growth is painful;Continue reading “Learn to embrace pain; be happy instead”
Category Archives: Letting Go
Do something that makes you happy; it’s none of your business if it makes others feel jealous/angry
Your sole responsibility is to be happy; if others gets angry then keep doing it because most of the time, you’re doing good already. If it upsets them then let them be. Winners win because they feel the pain of rejection while improving themselves to become even more better, while losers lose because they keepContinue reading “Do something that makes you happy; it’s none of your business if it makes others feel jealous/angry”
Feel the doubt but do it anyway; a simple trick to pursue your dreams;
First, I’d like to remind you that the biggest school on earth is “Outside of School Zone.” I just created that; what I mean to say is that learn about life and its complexities; anything that was not taught in the normal school can be learned outside, where real life starts. I understand it’s reallyContinue reading “Feel the doubt but do it anyway; a simple trick to pursue your dreams;”
F**k your fear of people’s anger; just do it for yourself! Do what makes you happy
This question “Ring the Bell,” ‘What’s stopping you?’ Obviously, it’s fear. Either you’re scared of what other people would say, or you’re scared that someone’s going to be angry and it’s going to put you to shame. “Oh lord, I’m sorry that happened, but I’m old enough to be scolded for being pouty. It wouldn’tContinue reading “F**k your fear of people’s anger; just do it for yourself! Do what makes you happy”
Google Maps Lead My Way to Suba Beach, Nipa Huts DaanBantayan, Cebu
On my way to Daanbantayan, inside the bus, the driver’s assistant asked, “Regular?” I paused, I did not know what to answer, I thought of other options, ‘maybe he’s talking about air-conditioner? But I’m already inside the normal bus,’ so I asked him, “what are the options?” He did not answer as well, he justContinue reading “Google Maps Lead My Way to Suba Beach, Nipa Huts DaanBantayan, Cebu”
4 Signs that you must change, move on and choose yourself NOW
We all learned from our mistakes; we all learned from the bad decisions we made in the past. The doubts we’ve had caused us to decide poorly. We wasted so much time trying to fix something we knew all the time that it couldn’t be forced. Sometimes, we’ll have to accept the fact that we’reContinue reading “4 Signs that you must change, move on and choose yourself NOW”
Be thankful to bad moments, not because you deserve it; but because you are being redirected
It’s not their fault that you have shown your best; it’s thanks to them, you have been redirected. Some people are here to reject you because they don’t have the qualities you needed in order to grow stronger. They’re aware deep inside that they just couldn’t do what others can do. It may feel sadContinue reading “Be thankful to bad moments, not because you deserve it; but because you are being redirected”
A dream came true at Soul Sierra
I went out to see what’s in there. It has always been my desire to see what’s in there. I finally did last Thursday and it was the best stay I’ve had. No dramas, just having fun connecting with nature. It excites me to see that view! It made me feel so surprised and blessed.Continue reading “A dream came true at Soul Sierra”
You just need one step to experience your dreams; trust yourself, you can do it!
I used to hope and dream that this person will appreciate me; that he will choose me; that he will be proud of me; I was one step to becoming a beggar of love and attention. It was so hard, it was affecting my everything; while he was so happy gossiping about me, humiliating meContinue reading “You just need one step to experience your dreams; trust yourself, you can do it!”
Focus on what makes you happy; feel the pain, accept what is and fly higher
I have heard a few broken-hearted folks going out, hiking, camping in nature and solo travelling. It’s the wisest thing to do. I agree that meeting new people helps you moved on. It will remind you that the person hurting you is not the only person in the world; you have plenty of options, justContinue reading “Focus on what makes you happy; feel the pain, accept what is and fly higher”