Keeping you open 👐

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how I get so stressed; then I noticed a pattern, it is when I think negatively and I want to stop it. Stopping it the wrong way, made me feel anxious. So here’s the right way to stop negative thoughts, don’t try to stop it; instead, keep your mind openContinue reading “Keeping you open 👐”

Tomorrow is not promised, so be happy now

Lately, I have been negatively self-sabotaging. I get emotional because of my own critical thoughts about my own doings. I’ve been so hard to me and it made me feel like being so dumb, even if I am totally not that dumb. Yes, I made mistakes and for me it’s not good to not worryContinue reading “Tomorrow is not promised, so be happy now”

Disappointments teach lessons

The first time I had the worse disappointment was back in college. I enrolled in an accountancy program without prior knowledge about what that degree is about. I had no idea how hard it is. Despite my ignorance, I still get in. I enrolled myself and I was like a kindergarten learning about new accountingContinue reading “Disappointments teach lessons”

How to pull yourself up!

Life is a rollercoaster ride; I always said that. You have to learn to relax and pull yourself together, not letting any worries nor anxieties stop you from doing the right things. This year, has been a rollercoaster ride for me; from getting out from the company I used to work with, to moving forwardContinue reading “How to pull yourself up!”

Learn from your shames

There is something I am so scared of being and that is, being embarrassed. In the past, I would do everything in my power just to avoid embarrassing situations; but it’s taking away my freedom. Right now, I’m going to change that approach. I wanted to just accept the fact that it happened and IContinue reading “Learn from your shames”

Why pursue the things that scares you

Big things are scary, it always will be; yet behind that feeling is a big dream waiting for you; all you have to do is take that first step, be there and be present. Easy pissy, but the thought of change is overwhelming and yet it’s the only way to move forward. Yes, I wasContinue reading “Why pursue the things that scares you”

Sunrise and sunset are the same; the only difference is your angling

Your positioning matters; your angle matters; your location matters; where you’re looking at matters. If you want to see the sun when it’s morning, then look at the east where the sun rises. If you want to see the sun in the evening, then position yourself where the sun is setting. If you want toContinue reading “Sunrise and sunset are the same; the only difference is your angling”

You did your part; why not celebrate and rejoice?

Another year has come, another adventures to look forward to. While 2022 is closing, 2023 is opening; change is for sure coming. Dwelling on the past is a BIG NO, even if it’s the best of all time. Doing so, will not help you grow and enjoy the moment; so be present and create anotherContinue reading “You did your part; why not celebrate and rejoice?”

My lone time is my heaven, only the right people will understand

I met people, they have a lot to say; unspoken judgments, bitter tone of voices. It echoed back to me back and forth; almost took all my attention listening to their hurtful words, on repeat. They act as if they knew you, in order to hurt you; they see their bad selves in you. TheseContinue reading “My lone time is my heaven, only the right people will understand”

Be calm; let it pass, that’s what my friend, said.

My mind is everywhere, it talks, it criticizes; I need to declutter. Too many people, trying to get in the way, where’s my peace everybody? I need a break, away from the crowd; where humans doesn’t exist. My mentor once told me, “if it’s not being said to you, it doesn’t mean it’s true… …mostContinue reading “Be calm; let it pass, that’s what my friend, said.”