Focusing on good things really gave me this feeling of this undefinable excitement, it makes me do the things I really want to do, it helps me grow and become the person I really wanted to be. Despite of the rejections and the triggers that I get, I manage to redirect myself to the rightContinue reading “It’s hard to find something to be thankful for, but it’s possible with little things”
Category Archives: Letting Go
Writing indeed helped me decide to revisit Danasan Eco Adventure Park! Rides completed!
In my previous post, I wrote about not doing anything right after my birthday. I wasn’t sure what to do next, so I shared about how I was procrastinating things and was hoping that by writing it down, it will inspire me to take action. Remembering how thankful and grateful I was to have somebodyContinue reading “Writing indeed helped me decide to revisit Danasan Eco Adventure Park! Rides completed!”
Who says you’re alone? Geez, you’re surrounded by people
So, to make the long story short, I spent my rest day, travelling, trekking and camping on my own. I was upset because the Driver going to Opon mocked me of not giving the change to the other passenger. I honestly did not noticed I actually took two change for twenty. Eight each! Where didContinue reading “Who says you’re alone? Geez, you’re surrounded by people”
Valuing Friends by chosing the other way; that’s the right thing to do
Inspired by the beauty of support, here I am writing. Time check: 4:49AM. Some have already reach their homes, some will definitely unwind and drink somewhere safe. Soon, I am also going out to enjoy the morning view, to smell the fresh air and to see the sun shining in the east. I just wantContinue reading “Valuing Friends by chosing the other way; that’s the right thing to do”
How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive
Being a product of a broken family, sometimes I feel unsafe when surrounded by people I don’t know; I have so much traumas specially in getting into relationship, may it be romantic, friendship or just a casual acquaintance. This fear of being bullied and judged if people knew my family background and how they lookedContinue reading “How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive”
Silence is the master key
My childhood hadn’t been good, but compared to others, it’s a little bit better; however, I am still struggling with family shame to this date. Everytime I hear or feel people acting like my parents and my parents parents, I get triggered and it’s so hard to really pull myself up together after being hit.Continue reading “Silence is the master key”
Keeping you open 👐
Lately, I’ve been thinking about how I get so stressed; then I noticed a pattern, it is when I think negatively and I want to stop it. Stopping it the wrong way, made me feel anxious. So here’s the right way to stop negative thoughts, don’t try to stop it; instead, keep your mind openContinue reading “Keeping you open 👐”
Disappointments teach lessons
The first time I had the worse disappointment was back in college. I enrolled in an accountancy program without prior knowledge about what that degree is about. I had no idea how hard it is. Despite my ignorance, I still get in. I enrolled myself and I was like a kindergarten learning about new accountingContinue reading “Disappointments teach lessons”
What’s your definition of Right People
The right people will never let you think like you’re just an option. The right people will include you in all there activities, they’ll make you feel like a part of their group. You will never seek for their attention because the right people will be there for you. They want to be around youContinue reading “What’s your definition of Right People”
Learn from your shames
There is something I am so scared of being and that is, being embarrassed. In the past, I would do everything in my power just to avoid embarrassing situations; but it’s taking away my freedom. Right now, I’m going to change that approach. I wanted to just accept the fact that it happened and IContinue reading “Learn from your shames”
Climbing, Rocks! 