Three days from now and it’s December 2023. I’m so thankful and grateful that I’m able to get through November 2023, who would have thought I will be able to finish the month happily. It’s been four months since I started travelling solo. I love how that changed me from being a clingy person whoContinue reading “For the love of Solo Travelling 6 places already: It’s been 4 months since I started”
Category Archives: Overcoming Anxieties
The Solo Adventurers NoteBook: Journey to Mt. Campetra
Meet me in the wilderness where no one knows my name; a message from someone unknown 🤭 – me. I just want to exercise my ability to CHANGE, to decide quickly with accuracy and to relax while figuring out what to do next. To make this long story short, just in case you’re in aContinue reading “The Solo Adventurers NoteBook: Journey to Mt. Campetra”
You are loved, you’re not alone; just ask and it will be given; it’s okay to be vulnerable
Sometimes, when you’re exhausted, you just want to stop everything; you will feel a sudden frustration, out of nowhere, you just want to sleep but you can’t; you want to go out but your mind would say, “I’m so tired, not now.” I’m supposed to bring my laundry out but I feel so tired insideContinue reading “You are loved, you’re not alone; just ask and it will be given; it’s okay to be vulnerable”
F**k your fear of people’s anger; just do it for yourself! Do what makes you happy
This question “Ring the Bell,” ‘What’s stopping you?’ Obviously, it’s fear. Either you’re scared of what other people would say, or you’re scared that someone’s going to be angry and it’s going to put you to shame. “Oh lord, I’m sorry that happened, but I’m old enough to be scolded for being pouty. It wouldn’tContinue reading “F**k your fear of people’s anger; just do it for yourself! Do what makes you happy”
4 Signs that you must change, move on and choose yourself NOW
We all learned from our mistakes; we all learned from the bad decisions we made in the past. The doubts we’ve had caused us to decide poorly. We wasted so much time trying to fix something we knew all the time that it couldn’t be forced. Sometimes, we’ll have to accept the fact that we’reContinue reading “4 Signs that you must change, move on and choose yourself NOW”
A dream came true at Soul Sierra
I went out to see what’s in there. It has always been my desire to see what’s in there. I finally did last Thursday and it was the best stay I’ve had. No dramas, just having fun connecting with nature. It excites me to see that view! It made me feel so surprised and blessed.Continue reading “A dream came true at Soul Sierra”
Writing indeed helped me decide to revisit Danasan Eco Adventure Park! Rides completed!
In my previous post, I wrote about not doing anything right after my birthday. I wasn’t sure what to do next, so I shared about how I was procrastinating things and was hoping that by writing it down, it will inspire me to take action. Remembering how thankful and grateful I was to have somebodyContinue reading “Writing indeed helped me decide to revisit Danasan Eco Adventure Park! Rides completed!”
Silence is the master key
My childhood hadn’t been good, but compared to others, it’s a little bit better; however, I am still struggling with family shame to this date. Everytime I hear or feel people acting like my parents and my parents parents, I get triggered and it’s so hard to really pull myself up together after being hit.Continue reading “Silence is the master key”
Keeping you open 👐
Lately, I’ve been thinking about how I get so stressed; then I noticed a pattern, it is when I think negatively and I want to stop it. Stopping it the wrong way, made me feel anxious. So here’s the right way to stop negative thoughts, don’t try to stop it; instead, keep your mind openContinue reading “Keeping you open 👐”
Adventure is best the 2nd time around, at Mt. Manunggal
Two years ago, I have finally visited Mt. Manunggal. Two years after, I came back to camp and to visit the rock formation. It’s always in my heart, to be back there and we finally did it, April 9, 2023; with a couple. I always feel happy whenever I am surrounded by lovers. Now IContinue reading “Adventure is best the 2nd time around, at Mt. Manunggal”
Climbing, Rocks! 