On my way to Daanbantayan, inside the bus, the driver’s assistant asked, “Regular?” I paused, I did not know what to answer, I thought of other options, ‘maybe he’s talking about air-conditioner? But I’m already inside the normal bus,’ so I asked him, “what are the options?” He did not answer as well, he justContinue reading “Google Maps Lead My Way to Suba Beach, Nipa Huts DaanBantayan, Cebu”
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4 Signs that you must change, move on and choose yourself NOW
We all learned from our mistakes; we all learned from the bad decisions we made in the past. The doubts we’ve had caused us to decide poorly. We wasted so much time trying to fix something we knew all the time that it couldn’t be forced. Sometimes, we’ll have to accept the fact that we’reContinue reading “4 Signs that you must change, move on and choose yourself NOW”
A dream came true at Soul Sierra
I went out to see what’s in there. It has always been my desire to see what’s in there. I finally did last Thursday and it was the best stay I’ve had. No dramas, just having fun connecting with nature. It excites me to see that view! It made me feel so surprised and blessed.Continue reading “A dream came true at Soul Sierra”
You just need one step to experience your dreams; trust yourself, you can do it!
I used to hope and dream that this person will appreciate me; that he will choose me; that he will be proud of me; I was one step to becoming a beggar of love and attention. It was so hard, it was affecting my everything; while he was so happy gossiping about me, humiliating meContinue reading “You just need one step to experience your dreams; trust yourself, you can do it!”
It’s hard to find something to be thankful for, but it’s possible with little things
Focusing on good things really gave me this feeling of this undefinable excitement, it makes me do the things I really want to do, it helps me grow and become the person I really wanted to be. Despite of the rejections and the triggers that I get, I manage to redirect myself to the rightContinue reading “It’s hard to find something to be thankful for, but it’s possible with little things”
You have the right to be loved, to be happy and to become successful
Regardless if your parents have separated ways, regardless of how broke they are and how messy their individual life is, you must remember that ‘it’s none of your business’ go create a better life, and live a life different from theirs. Until now, I still feel hesitant in going all out, considering others feelings andContinue reading “You have the right to be loved, to be happy and to become successful”
Who says you’re alone? Geez, you’re surrounded by people
So, to make the long story short, I spent my rest day, travelling, trekking and camping on my own. I was upset because the Driver going to Opon mocked me of not giving the change to the other passenger. I honestly did not noticed I actually took two change for twenty. Eight each! Where didContinue reading “Who says you’re alone? Geez, you’re surrounded by people”
Smile because you get through it, despite the shame and the pain
Lately, I had been sad; I knew it whenever I am spinning. My hands twirling, it helped me feel conscious everytime my paranoid self is operating. A thought of, “What if I’m wrong, what am I going to do.” A feeling of distrust after formulating a very good idea that already worked. My paranoid selfContinue reading “Smile because you get through it, despite the shame and the pain”
How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive
Being a product of a broken family, sometimes I feel unsafe when surrounded by people I don’t know; I have so much traumas specially in getting into relationship, may it be romantic, friendship or just a casual acquaintance. This fear of being bullied and judged if people knew my family background and how they lookedContinue reading “How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive”
Silence is the master key
My childhood hadn’t been good, but compared to others, it’s a little bit better; however, I am still struggling with family shame to this date. Everytime I hear or feel people acting like my parents and my parents parents, I get triggered and it’s so hard to really pull myself up together after being hit.Continue reading “Silence is the master key”