We are celebrating end of April as the best month of every year since it’s the month when our dreams came true! Meeting them was not a coincidence, it was a blessing. Someone called us, someone redirected us back soon as we’re ready. I almost forgot, I once dreamed of being one with that BigContinue reading “Embrace change, keep your heart open: Letting your guts guide”
Category Archives: Authenticity
Why it pays to wait; Cebu Starbuks trail achieved!
It’s been months since I set a goal of trekking into the Starbucks Summit in Cebu City; I met people who were also interested in the trail but had other agendas which was against my will. I’m not hiking to find a relationship, I hike for fun and give myself peace of mind. Finally, IContinue reading “Why it pays to wait; Cebu Starbuks trail achieved!”
Let Shame & Pain Rewards you with Success
The last time I ran in a marathon was really life-changing. I had to finish the race without cheating because it’s my goal to finish that 21k run, year 2024. I felt the shame of the possibility of not being approved of my request to take that leave but it was granted anyway and itContinue reading “Let Shame & Pain Rewards you with Success”
Little Things Matter: things happened for a reason
In February 2024, I met someone in a Bus heading to Park Mall; he’s usually not heading that direction but he’s going to meet a business partner and they’re going to meet somewhere. We had a lot to catch up and we’re so noisy inside the bus, we didn’t really care what others would say;Continue reading “Little Things Matter: things happened for a reason”
Knowing You’re On the right track: I saw the Sign I was Looking For
Last week, we had our 1st TB; we stayed in a big house, overseeing camotes island. Our volunteer cook seated beside me and introduced me to Camotes Island! It was an amazing day for me! I saw the island and the next day after, someone introduced me to Camotes Island Camping Site! I checked onContinue reading “Knowing You’re On the right track: I saw the Sign I was Looking For”
If only I knew what I know today
If given the chance to go back in time where ego is not an option, I will accept defeat and move on. “It’s not for me, so why force it?” I have lived my life proving myself I’m good enough. I thought I wasn’t because I was being rejected, but it wasn’t true. I wasContinue reading “If only I knew what I know today”
Life hurts, life heals; you’re fine, just keep moving
I’m just sad, that’s why I’m angry; thanks to this book by Claire Bidwell Smith, LCPC; at least now I understand the source of my angst. This is the truth, I’m sad and it’s okay. I failed to grieve because I was scared of being laughed at if I’d cry; it would make me appearContinue reading “Life hurts, life heals; you’re fine, just keep moving”
It’s okay to be sad; pain is temporary
Lately, I have been reading a book about anxiety; it talks about losses and grieving and I feel like writing about my own losses and the beginning of my great anxiety. Writing it down is believed to alleviate anxieties. My anxieties started that time my mother brought my dying uncle home. I was so scaredContinue reading “It’s okay to be sad; pain is temporary”
You’re not alone @ Mt. Manunggal In Cebu
I had a change of destination; I was gonna spend my Feb. 2024 Vacation leave to Camp Adela; things happened, people were unsure, time was inappropriate; I went back to Mt. Manunggal instead where I spent two nights and two days. It was fogging and it was so cold; I had myself with me andContinue reading “You’re not alone @ Mt. Manunggal In Cebu”
What keeps me going? The FUN of doing little things
“The time has come when I finally have to decide whether to continue the Marathon or to stop.” I was very tempted to just get in a bus and rest, but I wasn’t there to give up. I was there to face my weaknesses; shame of being seen in pain and barefoot, fear of beingContinue reading “What keeps me going? The FUN of doing little things”