Accept that it’s not the thing you’re passionate about; accept your redirection

We’re almost at the end of December, and then January comes next; this is a month where we start another whole year and another whole month to get through. There maybe a lot of mental roadblocks this year but I’m glad to say I’m able to get through it; quick decisions, trusting my gut feeling,Continue reading “Accept that it’s not the thing you’re passionate about; accept your redirection”

Don’t change analysis; not everything needs change

Rest days had gone, I’m thankful and grateful for the time I spent with me, reading, cooking, washing clothes, talking with acquaintances and of course writing anything I can think of. I’m done with travelling for this year, but maybe I will do one or two more in December 2023. I just want to seeContinue reading “Don’t change analysis; not everything needs change”

I got rejected and bought this Airbed instead

Right now, I’m on top of my airbed. This is a gift that I gave myself early this year from the gifts I received last year. I wouldn’t have bought this airbed if my offer was not rejected. To make the long story short, I chased someone not worthy of my time. Rejections are reallyContinue reading “I got rejected and bought this Airbed instead”

You are loved, you’re not alone; just ask and it will be given; it’s okay to be vulnerable

Sometimes, when you’re exhausted, you just want to stop everything; you will feel a sudden frustration, out of nowhere, you just want to sleep but you can’t; you want to go out but your mind would say, “I’m so tired, not now.” I’m supposed to bring my laundry out but I feel so tired insideContinue reading “You are loved, you’re not alone; just ask and it will be given; it’s okay to be vulnerable”

Think again, are you really happy with your actions?

Alone time reminds us that we can be independent too. Sometimes, when we became too dependent to a group of people, friends, family, etc.; we often forget that we can do things on our own too, without them. Dependency only stopped you from doing things that makes you totally happy. If others can’t and youContinue reading “Think again, are you really happy with your actions?”

Blessings comes naturally after deciding to let go of toxic connections

A lot will be gone, many will leave; giving rooms for the new people whom you deserve to be connected with. Let go of these toxic connections: Believe me, I met all those people already. Luckily, I got out safe from depression. I decided to keep going, claimed what I deserve and worked on itContinue reading “Blessings comes naturally after deciding to let go of toxic connections”

Focus on the happy side of life, be redirected!

Life is really complicated sometimes. One day, you feel tired, and your dependency tempt you to be around the wrong people. Sometimes, when you’re sad, you’ll do something you shouldn’t do. So, focus on the happy side of life. Let go of anything who disrespects you, rejected you, and replaced you with someone else. Sometimes,Continue reading “Focus on the happy side of life, be redirected!”

Feel the doubt but do it anyway; a simple trick to pursue your dreams;

First, I’d like to remind you that the biggest school on earth is “Outside of School Zone.” I just created that; what I mean to say is that learn about life and its complexities; anything that was not taught in the normal school can be learned outside, where real life starts. I understand it’s reallyContinue reading “Feel the doubt but do it anyway; a simple trick to pursue your dreams;”

F**k your fear of people’s anger; just do it for yourself! Do what makes you happy

This question “Ring the Bell,” ‘What’s stopping you?’ Obviously, it’s fear. Either you’re scared of what other people would say, or you’re scared that someone’s going to be angry and it’s going to put you to shame. “Oh lord, I’m sorry that happened, but I’m old enough to be scolded for being pouty. It wouldn’tContinue reading “F**k your fear of people’s anger; just do it for yourself! Do what makes you happy”

Google Maps Lead My Way to Suba Beach, Nipa Huts DaanBantayan, Cebu

On my way to Daanbantayan, inside the bus, the driver’s assistant asked, “Regular?” I paused, I did not know what to answer, I thought of other options, ‘maybe he’s talking about air-conditioner? But I’m already inside the normal bus,’ so I asked him, “what are the options?” He did not answer as well, he justContinue reading “Google Maps Lead My Way to Suba Beach, Nipa Huts DaanBantayan, Cebu”