Almost Got Into Another Relationship 6 Years After, Luckily I got Ghosted Again

After 6 years of choosing to stay single, I almost got into another short term relationship, luckily it ended so shortly that we haven’t talked of being in a relationship at all. It was all friendship and kindness, and kind of a short romantic date. For the record, that was the first time that I’veContinue reading “Almost Got Into Another Relationship 6 Years After, Luckily I got Ghosted Again”

Go Solo Or Be With Your Tribe

Prior to the pandemic, I was a scared little brat who doesn’t go out without friends, nor eat alone without anyone; I always want company and I always ended up being disappointed. Either I’d be harrassed, misunderstood, or I’d me misdirected. The COVID 19 pandemic taught me to stand alone, and I’m really thankful andContinue reading “Go Solo Or Be With Your Tribe”

Turning Obstacle Into An Opportunity By Doing “IT”

I am convinced that my only obstacle is my old self. Don’t stop, keep going! Just do it, you’ll get used to it. Believe in yourself, you have come this far, what proof do you still need. You can do it! I used to be so scared of crossing the Mactan New Bridge alone. InsteadContinue reading “Turning Obstacle Into An Opportunity By Doing “IT””

You’re Not “Not Good Enough”; It’s Not What You Want

If you ever think that you’re not good enough because of failure and rejection, think again, never settle for less. Learn to change your choices. Is that what you really really wanted to do or is someone wanting it for you? There might be a reason why you’re not doing your best. Maybe it’s notContinue reading “You’re Not “Not Good Enough”; It’s Not What You Want”

Don’t Stop Yourself, Support It!

If you can stop it, you can support it. Choose the other way, don’t stop! Keep going! Read! Stand up! Walk! Move! Keep moving UP! There is one BIG lesson I learned in my early ages; a lesson that can change your future decisions as well. I am quite sure about it, 100%. “Support &Continue reading “Don’t Stop Yourself, Support It!”

Moving On Without Letting Go By Doing What Makes You Happy

August never ends in 2025 for me; it is one of the best months I’ve had since birth. It’s a time when I fully allowed myself to do the things I really wanted to do without hesitation, not thinking of money as a problem but rather a solution for safety and success. I’ll move onContinue reading “Moving On Without Letting Go By Doing What Makes You Happy”

How To Let Go Without Acceptance

I noticed that when someone’s holding unto the past and the emotions linked to it, they were advised to let go. There must be a proper way for letting go, right? Maybe loosen up your grip? But how will you loosen up your grip? Acceptance! Acceptance is the key to letting go! So how canContinue reading “How To Let Go Without Acceptance”

Just A Little Faith + Patience + Action : The Formula To Take That First Step

I was always scared to fall, to be shamed, to be bullied; to be laughed, to be rejected, to be alone and lastly, to walk away alone; so it took so long for me to START doing things alone. I waited and waited and waited but no one came to be with me. I forcedContinue reading “Just A Little Faith + Patience + Action : The Formula To Take That First Step”

Accept Defeat: Work on yourself to deserve better

Clarity is a good thing about spending time in nature. I’ve had so much realizations soon as I’ve allowed myself to listen. Truth really sets you free. Once you accept that you needed improvement, you are setting yourself free from begging, forcing, or manipulating. Accepting defeat is not a weakness. Accepting rejection is also notContinue reading “Accept Defeat: Work on yourself to deserve better”

Do not look forward nor backward, look around, accept what is

I went for a solo climb today and it’s better than before. I had multiple stops but atleast I did not almost faint like the second time; instead, I figured out something very interesting. I noticed that whenever I look back and look forward, my energy drops; but if I stayed still while focusing onlyContinue reading “Do not look forward nor backward, look around, accept what is”