Conquering fears, wearing 2-piece at Crab Island

Did you know? There’s an island in Maribago, just minutes away from Jpark Place. It’s not yet fully developed as of the moment, so it was for free. Yesterday morning, I was recording while walking and talking about conquering my fears and wanting to really wear 2-piece, since I’m almost 30 and haven’t really wornContinue reading “Conquering fears, wearing 2-piece at Crab Island”

This thing makes people stuck and it’s not lack of knowledge

It’s indecision. We’re stuck because we’re undecided; even if we already knew that it’s a “YES” we still can’t say it. We already knew, but we did not see it. Or even if we already see it, we just didn’t trust ourselves. A friend of mine, told me to just say “YES”. Yes, I can!Continue reading “This thing makes people stuck and it’s not lack of knowledge”

Overthinking is not good, here’s why.

I was in grade 5 when I started to walk on my own for hours, going to school. I noticed that everytime I am already under those trees, I’d ran because of those scary thoughts. Thoughts like, there’s a monster showing up soon, because that’s what other’s story tells. It’s funny that I’d ran withoutContinue reading “Overthinking is not good, here’s why.”

Be open for change, life is about it

This year, I’m going to become 30 years older. I am proud to be one. I accept that I am older and getting prettier 😜. I’m just old enough to show some skin; to become the person I always wanted to be, because I’m already thirty. I’m no longer too young to be scared ofContinue reading “Be open for change, life is about it”

What’s the point of Fear of judgment; be authentic, here’s why.

One thing I realized about most people; they don’t really know you, so they judge and judge and judge. So what’s the point of impressing them? They’ve already judged you. Tell the truth, be authentic, let them judge; let them guess, you’re prepared for it. Let me tell you a bit of my story, notContinue reading “What’s the point of Fear of judgment; be authentic, here’s why.”

It’s emotional pain; that’s what you’re most afraid of

Well, here’s the answer to our problem, “Feel it!” Process it, then let go of who’s causing it. The right people cares about your emotional problems; they’re careful not to trigger it. The wrong people will judge you, laugh at you, create gossips about you, and of course wait for you to breakdown in shame,Continue reading “It’s emotional pain; that’s what you’re most afraid of”

The Question that leads me to find my passion

“Believe in you; why would they not doubt if they’re not in your shoes?” I used to get so emotional when people closer to me disliked me, gets jealous of me, and not happy of my achievements. But soon as I realized, I actually deserve the right people in my life, where I feel safe,Continue reading “The Question that leads me to find my passion”

Be calm; let it pass, that’s what my friend, said.

My mind is everywhere, it talks, it criticizes; I need to declutter. Too many people, trying to get in the way, where’s my peace everybody? I need a break, away from the crowd; where humans doesn’t exist. My mentor once told me, “if it’s not being said to you, it doesn’t mean it’s true… …mostContinue reading “Be calm; let it pass, that’s what my friend, said.”

Living in fear is not an option; just do it, both! You can!

Someone told me, if you’re scared of something, you better do it anyway; so I did. It’s liberating and it sets me free from everyone; so far, so good. It’s kinda hard to live a fearful life; it’s easy to live free from negativities. Let me tell you a story on how fear wasted myContinue reading “Living in fear is not an option; just do it, both! You can!”

If it doesn’t sound good, why bother think about it? Sometimes, ignorance is the key

Life is simple, yet others wants to complicate it; creating intentional dramas to make you feel bad and cry like a baby. Thank goodness! I am no longer a baby, I just looked like one; ah, sometimes, I feel like one too! But this time, only with someone who cares. The rest can be ignored;Continue reading “If it doesn’t sound good, why bother think about it? Sometimes, ignorance is the key”