The mystery of emotions and their purpose

Lately, I noticed that feeling angry made me feel good. It felt good to feel your emotions specially if you’re going to put faces on it; it will make you laugh instead of crying when you’re sad, losing control when you’re angry, running away when you feel guilty, and hiding when in shame. I noticedContinue reading “The mystery of emotions and their purpose”

Let’s play, “Now, I have” to end year 2023 full of gratitude

Now I have seen 42 shooting stars; In the past I barely see one. Now I have travelled more than two places alone; in the past, I barely travel to one. Now I have trust in my guts; in the past, I thought it will bring me shame because it’s related to pooping. Now IContinue reading “Let’s play, “Now, I have” to end year 2023 full of gratitude”

How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive

Being a product of a broken family, sometimes I feel unsafe when surrounded by people I don’t know; I have so much traumas specially in getting into relationship, may it be romantic, friendship or just a casual acquaintance. This fear of being bullied and judged if people knew my family background and how they lookedContinue reading “How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive”

It’s emotional pain; that’s what you’re most afraid of

Well, here’s the answer to our problem, “Feel it!” Process it, then let go of who’s causing it. The right people cares about your emotional problems; they’re careful not to trigger it. The wrong people will judge you, laugh at you, create gossips about you, and of course wait for you to breakdown in shame,Continue reading “It’s emotional pain; that’s what you’re most afraid of”

True Love is painful. Better than words full of lies

Love is a melody. It speaks, you just have to listen. Sometimes, it can be manipulating, but it’s worth the emotional pain. I am scared, this is the sign I needed. I loved a man, I don’t even know him yet. He looks handsome, but strict like a wise man. He sound like a father,Continue reading “True Love is painful. Better than words full of lies”

Owning your emotions

“If there’s no snake, then you’re safe.” The first thing to do when you’re afraid of something is to look around and see if there are really monsters or snakes around. Usually, there is none. So you’re always safe to move faster or slower, it’s really up to you. When I was in high school,Continue reading “Owning your emotions”