I am blessed just now. I opened my Instagram and Ms Heng’s message came to me. I’m always a fan of hers. One day, I’ll buy one of her books. I just have to save a little. I was inspired by her stories about her mother and how she grew up; her relationship with herContinue reading “It’s nice to be important, but it’s important to be nice – Simone Heng”
Category Archives: Emotions
How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive
Being a product of a broken family, sometimes I feel unsafe when surrounded by people I don’t know; I have so much traumas specially in getting into relationship, may it be romantic, friendship or just a casual acquaintance. This fear of being bullied and judged if people knew my family background and how they lookedContinue reading “How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive”
If it doesn’t sound good, why bother think about it? Sometimes, ignorance is the key
Life is simple, yet others wants to complicate it; creating intentional dramas to make you feel bad and cry like a baby. Thank goodness! I am no longer a baby, I just looked like one; ah, sometimes, I feel like one too! But this time, only with someone who cares. The rest can be ignored;Continue reading “If it doesn’t sound good, why bother think about it? Sometimes, ignorance is the key”
If you can forgive, you can let go. Hello! It’s Christmas!
May this Christmas brings you joy, love, appreciation, new opportunities, new experiences; and above all, new love, fresh from the start. May we start forgiving so we can let go of our grudges; only then, we can be happiest. Life is full of surprises; it is when you accept failures, mistakes, lacks, etc.; that weContinue reading “If you can forgive, you can let go. Hello! It’s Christmas!”
“Smiling” as an act of full acceptance. You may now stop freezing
Once, there was a child, wondering what life was; observant of her surroundings, learning from others, eager to help. Doubts creeps in, she wanted to make sure; she looked, compared, see the difference, and change. Was it cheating? In school, it was; but in life, it wasn’t; because if you won’t open your eyes now,Continue reading ““Smiling” as an act of full acceptance. You may now stop freezing”
It did not happened yet. Better do it now than be unprepared
I know this is a waste, emotional preparation for the worst. I am fooled by love, blinded but totally awakened. The worst can happen, question is, how will I handle it. I’m prepared for what is good, but not for the worst. So here I am, considering, the judgments in town. I am triggered, everytimeContinue reading “It did not happened yet. Better do it now than be unprepared”
True Love is painful. Better than words full of lies
Love is a melody. It speaks, you just have to listen. Sometimes, it can be manipulating, but it’s worth the emotional pain. I am scared, this is the sign I needed. I loved a man, I don’t even know him yet. He looks handsome, but strict like a wise man. He sound like a father,Continue reading “True Love is painful. Better than words full of lies”
Love yourself first. Why focus on others’ progress?
When I was young, I met a man. My world stopped, I spend my years with him, like a puppet and a devoted wife. Well, I wasn’t a wife, I was just assuming. Right now, I am talking to someone, it reminds me of him; I must not assume. It’s easy to put yourself underContinue reading “Love yourself first. Why focus on others’ progress?”
Looking Back
I was once a toddler, constantly searching. I know I can do it, I just didn’t allow myself. I thought I was so young, seeking for approval. I definitely didn’t trust myself, so kept queit. I cried, I shouted, I pouted, deep inside. No words coming out, too scared to be reprimanded. But now I’mContinue reading “Looking Back”
I found the love 💕
It is when you’re not thinking, and just feeling; yet it makes you smile, happy and contented. It is healing, it is loving, it is kind, it is friendly; and most importantly, it is gentle and understanding. It’s when you allow love to come to you, that it will. It is when you do notContinue reading “I found the love 💕”