Go Solo Or Be With Your Tribe

Prior to the pandemic, I was a scared little brat who doesn’t go out without friends, nor eat alone without anyone; I always want company and I always ended up being disappointed. Either I’d be harrassed, misunderstood, or I’d me misdirected. The COVID 19 pandemic taught me to stand alone, and I’m really thankful andContinue reading “Go Solo Or Be With Your Tribe”

Courage Sets Me Free; Fear Kept Me Stuck In A Loop That Never Ends

Without courage, we wouldn’t be able to walk because we will not take that first step forward. I had no exact idea how I learned to walk, I just had courage, for sure I crawled first and then I started holding unto heavy and strong objects and started standing and then walking to the otherContinue reading “Courage Sets Me Free; Fear Kept Me Stuck In A Loop That Never Ends”

End of 2025 has been crazy in the Philippines

Kalmaegi covered few houses in Cebu; cars and houses buried in the muds including humans. We are still searching for those who have been missing; now “FungWung” as bigger as the Philippines is coming. Deforestation causes landslides; Sierra Madre who’s protecting Luzon has an ongoing Mine operation. It could cover houses, buildings, humans, etc. IContinue reading “End of 2025 has been crazy in the Philippines”

A little lost, a lot found @ Camp Adela, Cebu

After a year, I have finally visited back the beautiful Camp Adela. I still remember my first time camping solo was very interesting. It was only me and the owner’s trusted worker; t’was not raining however it’s so windy and so cold. I slept in a hammock because I choose to not because nobody offered,Continue reading “A little lost, a lot found @ Camp Adela, Cebu”

What are you thankful for today? Have you stopped denying the truth too?

Things to be thankful for today: 2. I saw a Facebook page advertising about Waterfront Fun Run Activity to Celebrate Love this Valentines and 21K run is offered. I have been longing for this since my last run last April 2023. I will really register! Come what may! 3. I finally claimed my running shirt!Continue reading “What are you thankful for today? Have you stopped denying the truth too?”

How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive

Being a product of a broken family, sometimes I feel unsafe when surrounded by people I don’t know; I have so much traumas specially in getting into relationship, may it be romantic, friendship or just a casual acquaintance. This fear of being bullied and judged if people knew my family background and how they lookedContinue reading “How Going To Gym, Dancing and writing helped me forgive”

Kindness is the key to forgiveness

Oh, I have written a lot but I wasn’t able to save it; I forgive myself. Now I have to re-write the whole thing I’d like to share with you. I wrote, I was struggling about forgiveness and kindness really helped me forgive a little bit easier than before. Of course, it’s not overnight; itContinue reading “Kindness is the key to forgiveness”

The Choices We’ve Made

IN A BUS Going South Last Sunday, while sitting on a bus, a lady invited me to eat with her. I politely said no and kept on reading the book I recently bought. Hours later, she fell asleep. I am still reading and I kept on turning the pages. She woke up while we askContinue reading “The Choices We’ve Made”

Choose Self Love Over Self Pity

See the difference between these two. I knew this because I have experienced it and I have felt it. Self Pity: When you choose self pity, you’ll attract people who will pity on you like someone who doesn’t deserve anything but just pity, a little is enough. It keeps you feeling poor and not goodContinue reading “Choose Self Love Over Self Pity”

Replace Worry with Fun

I have seen BTS Jungkook VLive twice and he always talked about worrying.. first about the Grammy performance, 2nd about the Las Vegas Concert. Guess what, everything goes right! It’s an affirmation that WORRYING is not necessary, because in the end, everything’s going to be alright. I wonder 🤔 Jungkook-sshi already knew this, he mustContinue reading “Replace Worry with Fun”